OK...I have to put my two cents in about and OLD OLD subject. Someone said that those people shown 'cooling off' in the cinderella fountain are probably just doing a custom in there country. Very well....But they are not IN there country. Would anyone from the US think of doing things they do hear in another country? No. This is something i learned when i was young! When we ever went to someones house I was respectful and followed THEIR rules! Its disrespectful and show a total lack of concideration for everyone!!
Yes, but my friend you are assuming that they KNOW it isn't common in our country!
Imagine this: you go to another country and you pay for something at a convenience store on the corner. When they pull your change out of the till, you reach out and take it and leave. Normal everyday transaction right?
Yet everyone behind you in line gasps, and the counter person looks a little stunned. HORRORS!! What could you possibly have done to offend them?
Well, in much of Japan, that is considered incredibly rude. In "polite society" one doesn't exchange money hand-to-hand. Money is placed on counters to exchange, and you never take it directly from someone's hand. But what if you didn't know that? Wouldn't you hope people would be understanding that your country does things differently? I certainly didn't know that, but my friend learned it when she went to Japan a couple years back, thankfully a friend warned her. But what if you didn't have a friend living in Japan to tell you this?
Did you know the whole "standing in line" thing is also pretty rare in the rest of the world? I would hope that most people from other countries would clearly see that we "queue" here, but in most other countries, that just ain't the case. Just try to get on a train in any orderly fashion while in some countries (or in New York! LOL)! It's every man for himself! And if you think the baby-strollers-to-the-achilles trick is something we in America (or in Disney
) invented, try traveling in parts of Europe, linke in Italy where a stroller is a tool to get around others in the amorphous groups they consider "queueing". My hubby has some great stories while waiting to get on a plane in Paris. Ugh! Don't even get me started on some parts of Asia and the Middle East. Just try to get people to line up neatly in India!
Here is a cute article about the French and their seeming inability to stand in lines, clean up dog poop, and other facts and fancies! It's all cultural experiences, ya know?
http://www.expatica.com/fr/life_in/feature/queue-jumping-and-other-parisian-skills-26290.html
And from a BBC article:
"Students told not to queue jump
Students from abroad studying English in Scarborough are to be shown a video on how to behave.
Called "Enjoy Yourselves in Scarborough", the 16-minute video contains advice on how not to antagonise the locals.
Gareth Jones from Scarborough Borough Council says: "When it comes to something like queuing for a bus there's a right way to do it.
"And when you go into a shop you shouldn't barge your way to the front.""
And skip down to "International Attitudes" in this Wiki article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cutting_(in_line)
Anyway, just a little global perspective!