First you happen to be one of the nastiest people I have ever heard from...
Second, I never said I was holding back my 7,8 or 9 year old.
I held back my kids who would of been 4 when school started, in our very academic school district.
All of which was
recommended by all the teachers, principal (but one high school teacher) we talked to.
If you want to get so nasty, guess what, my kids all STARTED kindergarten at the age of 5, they turned 6 within 6 weeks of school starting. But the ALL started kindergarten at 5, your golden age.
It is not up to me to sacrifice my child up to a system that is broken. I am not going to put my child in a situation that is not the most beneficial for her because others believe she should go to school because of when her birthday was.
What if I was trying to push her in early? There is no problem with that right? Just if I hold her back a year.
When it comes down to it, I don't care really about the social irresponsibility, I care about my child, and her education. This was the best decision for her (and my others). You worry about your child, I will worry about mine.
Plus, our district is changing our cutoff date next year, guess what, my kids will no longer be considered held back. They will be right where they are according to you supposed to be.
So, clearly our district sees how much better kids do when they are slightly older, and not 4 when entering kindergarten.
Bottom line, it comes down to, my child my choice.
And, I am still not getting where I am not teaching my children responsibility because I sent them to school a year later, you keep brining that up. That it is my job to teach them "proper behavior", since you clearly don't know me, or my kids, not sure how you are ASSuming I am not doing these things based on the fact that I kept them home with me an extra year.
I 100% disagree with almost everything you said. Yes it is your CHOICE but where is the line drawn between your choice and socially irresponsible. If you choose to hold your child until they are 7, how about 8 - is that a matter of CHOICE? I have 3 children (one in first and one in K - both boys). My oldest has a May b-day and started at 5 as he is supposed to. My middle one has a Nov. b-day and started at 4.
Both are doing great!!!!!!! My daughter will start at age 5 when the time comes.
All of my kids go to bed at 7pm and all had to be weaned off a nap before kindergarten (not a hard task). If you teach your child responsibility and proper behavior than they will be ready for school at age 5 - this maturity arguement is crazy. Of course there are the rare exception but they are exactly that rare.
Not sure where you live but we live in a highly academiclly demanding district and they still recommend my kids start school on time.
Children belong in school at the right age and as parents it is our job to ensure they get there. If a parent holds there child without professional recommendations they are only hurting their child socially - no wonder they are immature and one more year may not help that.
I know many will disagre but it is my opinion and it is also the social norm to send your child to school at age 5.