Okay, I have loved Disney World for as long as I can remember and used to be able to go every few years. Always adult-only trips because my ex and I didn’t have children. Due to the divorce and health issues, it’s been at least 10 since my last trip. The person I am with now has a 9 yo son who he is only allowed to see every other weekend. I finally have my head above water and am considering a trip to Disney for my 50th Bday. When I mentioned it, my DH wants to try to bring his son also. DH has never been and wants his first time to be with his son. First, I would love to be able to bring him, just not for this trip. Why? Because of the problem and stress it will be with his ex. She will say no. Then she will say yes. And she will keep this up until the day before leaving. She hates my DH and she really enjoys drama. We cannot predict whether she will let him go or not. This has happened in the past and about 50-50 she will actually let him go. But now I feel awful about all of it, like the evil stepmother. Am I being selfish to want this? Should I just try to relax & hope she actually lets him go?