Hi You All. so... My trip #31 is scheduled for January 11. I have been planning this for 1 year.
Our Disney trip is a major yearly event.
Anyway, my bff the person I have been going with for the past 31 years has become very ill.
Trip needs to be cancelled. Am I a horrible person to still want to go alone. He will still be in treatment when our trip dates come. He told me he does not want me to feel guilty about having fun while he is ill, but i do !!!
I try not to do anything that i usually do because I don't want him to feel bad. I know that is wron and I can not stop my life but...
Do you think it is ok in a few weeks to mention that I would like to not cancel, but I would like to still go alone.
I am so conflicted.
Our Disney trip is a major yearly event.
Anyway, my bff the person I have been going with for the past 31 years has become very ill.
Trip needs to be cancelled. Am I a horrible person to still want to go alone. He will still be in treatment when our trip dates come. He told me he does not want me to feel guilty about having fun while he is ill, but i do !!!
I try not to do anything that i usually do because I don't want him to feel bad. I know that is wron and I can not stop my life but...
Do you think it is ok in a few weeks to mention that I would like to not cancel, but I would like to still go alone.
I am so conflicted.