Lilacs4Me
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- Aug 31, 2015
My 3 kids have played sports since they were about 3. They are currently 18, 14, and 13. We have opted not to go the travel route for many reasons, and have been perfectly happy with that decision. Other than football for our oldest, none of my kids have ever loved a sport enough that they would have wanted to play past high school, and even though DS18 was being sought after as a recruit, injuries knocked him out of that race anyway. I have never said no to an activity other than hockey, because of the costs coupled with the fact that the nearest rink is about 45 minutes away during rush hour and I wasn't willing to drive there just to pay thousands of $$ and be cold all the time.
Oldest: (dropped out of all "secondary sports" by middle school so he could focus on football and lacrosse) baseball, soccer, basketball, fencing, swimming, wrestling, - all rec, all cost anywhere between $50-150/session or season. This was in the early 2000's, and we lived in a very rural area at the time. He also did track his freshman year of HS, for $150+track shoes.
Football - 2nd grade- 12th grade
$150 for the first couple seasons, equipment included other than mouthguard and cleats.
~$250 for the middle youth years
$375.00/ea for the last couple of seasons, but by then we moved to a much more expensive area.
$395/ea for a few college summer overnight football camps
$60-$100/ea for several 1-day showcases and clinics
$200 for each year of HS football for the schools pay-to-play
$200/year for each summer "training camp" the high school ran
$30 for orthodontic mouthguards, $15 for regular
Lacrosse - started as a HS sophomore
$150 for each year of HS lacrosse since it was the 2nd sport of the school year. Equipment was either provided or DS borrowed it from a LAX friend.
$70-$100 each year (min) since he was 5 for outgrown or worn-out cleats for whatever sport he was playing at the time
DD14: (dropped out of everything but cheer and lacrosse by about 7th grade) dance, gymnastics, swimming, tumbling class, softball, basketball, soccer - all between $50-150/session to $130/month for dance and gymnastics, $50-75 for each dance costume for recitals.
Cheer - 1st-8th grade
rec level competitive cheer+sideline cheer for the league's football games - $140-$395/season, plus competition fees, competition shoes, event t-shirts, bows, jackets, backpacks, etc. Ranged anywhere from $5.00 for a new bow to $100 per competition, total of about $300-$500 for the "extras" each season. No travel, thank goodness.
$60 for each year of Middle School basketball cheer, and she used her competition shoes from the previous cheer season. Bows, spanks, and t-shirts,etc were extra, a total of about $100 each year.
Lacrosse - 6th grade-current
$200 for each youth lacrosse season, no travel. Equipment was provided but DD didn't like the ugly orange sticks/goggles, so we bought her her own, total of about $150
$200 pay to play for HS lacrosse. She is using the same stick and goggles she used in youth.
$175 for an off-season league her HS coach wants the girls to play in.
$80 for summer conditioning camp the HS runs
$50-$100 every time we have to replace cleats.
$30 orthodontic mouthguards, $15 for regular
DS13: (dropped out of everything but football and lacrosse by 3rd grade) baseball, soccer, basketball, swimming - all rec, all cost anywhere between $50-150/session or season.
Football: 5 years old-current
$375 each season, equipment included other than mouthguard and cleats.
FREE!! Youth camp skills and drills spring academy put on by the HS coaches, DH coaches the camp so DS goes for free. It would be $90
Lacrosse - 5th grade-current
FREE!!! He is a goalie, and goalies play for free in our league. All equipment is provided. We buy cleats and mouthguard, same as above. He has been invited to be a guest goalie on many travel teams and that is always free. He did a 6-week game-only indoor league once that was also free. When he gets to HS, he will pay the $200 pay-to-play fee like everyone else, but for now we are just enjoying the savings. We do make a $100 donation to the league every year just to say thanks.
$80 summer conditioning and skills camp the HS runs for 7th and 8th graders.
Oldest: (dropped out of all "secondary sports" by middle school so he could focus on football and lacrosse) baseball, soccer, basketball, fencing, swimming, wrestling, - all rec, all cost anywhere between $50-150/session or season. This was in the early 2000's, and we lived in a very rural area at the time. He also did track his freshman year of HS, for $150+track shoes.
Football - 2nd grade- 12th grade
$150 for the first couple seasons, equipment included other than mouthguard and cleats.
~$250 for the middle youth years
$375.00/ea for the last couple of seasons, but by then we moved to a much more expensive area.
$395/ea for a few college summer overnight football camps
$60-$100/ea for several 1-day showcases and clinics
$200 for each year of HS football for the schools pay-to-play
$200/year for each summer "training camp" the high school ran
$30 for orthodontic mouthguards, $15 for regular
Lacrosse - started as a HS sophomore
$150 for each year of HS lacrosse since it was the 2nd sport of the school year. Equipment was either provided or DS borrowed it from a LAX friend.
$70-$100 each year (min) since he was 5 for outgrown or worn-out cleats for whatever sport he was playing at the time
DD14: (dropped out of everything but cheer and lacrosse by about 7th grade) dance, gymnastics, swimming, tumbling class, softball, basketball, soccer - all between $50-150/session to $130/month for dance and gymnastics, $50-75 for each dance costume for recitals.
Cheer - 1st-8th grade
rec level competitive cheer+sideline cheer for the league's football games - $140-$395/season, plus competition fees, competition shoes, event t-shirts, bows, jackets, backpacks, etc. Ranged anywhere from $5.00 for a new bow to $100 per competition, total of about $300-$500 for the "extras" each season. No travel, thank goodness.
$60 for each year of Middle School basketball cheer, and she used her competition shoes from the previous cheer season. Bows, spanks, and t-shirts,etc were extra, a total of about $100 each year.
Lacrosse - 6th grade-current
$200 for each youth lacrosse season, no travel. Equipment was provided but DD didn't like the ugly orange sticks/goggles, so we bought her her own, total of about $150
$200 pay to play for HS lacrosse. She is using the same stick and goggles she used in youth.
$175 for an off-season league her HS coach wants the girls to play in.
$80 for summer conditioning camp the HS runs
$50-$100 every time we have to replace cleats.
$30 orthodontic mouthguards, $15 for regular
DS13: (dropped out of everything but football and lacrosse by 3rd grade) baseball, soccer, basketball, swimming - all rec, all cost anywhere between $50-150/session or season.
Football: 5 years old-current
$375 each season, equipment included other than mouthguard and cleats.
FREE!! Youth camp skills and drills spring academy put on by the HS coaches, DH coaches the camp so DS goes for free. It would be $90
Lacrosse - 5th grade-current
FREE!!! He is a goalie, and goalies play for free in our league. All equipment is provided. We buy cleats and mouthguard, same as above. He has been invited to be a guest goalie on many travel teams and that is always free. He did a 6-week game-only indoor league once that was also free. When he gets to HS, he will pay the $200 pay-to-play fee like everyone else, but for now we are just enjoying the savings. We do make a $100 donation to the league every year just to say thanks.
$80 summer conditioning and skills camp the HS runs for 7th and 8th graders.
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