I don't like playing the game at parties where you bring a white elephant gift/ornament/etc. and then there is trading and stealing. I've heard it called Dirty Santa, a name which I dislike as much as the game, ha. Something uncomfortable always seems to happen when I'm involved in one of these. For example, other players make a side deal to steal your gift and trade among themselves. Another one I was involved in, one couple misunderstood and brought white elephant while everyone else brought something nice. A family member brought the same gift for all 4 of her immediate family members, so that was awkward. I know I take it too seriously! It's probably just my introverted nature and the feeling of being a spectacle during my turn.