I didn't post when I got back after my early Nov trip (Nov 5-8) and wanted to provide some thoughts now. About me so you know where my head was during the trip, I don't expect people to shut themselves inside and stop everything (or else we'd not have gone to WDW), but I do expect mask compliance and distancing to the extent it's possible.
I arrived Wed afternoon and departed Sunday evening, stayed at BLT (the kitchen was wonderful for breakfast and the space was fabulous for relaxation and distance). Wed night, went to DS, arriving around 5 pm - we were able to walk right into WOD, no line, not very crowded yet, so I highly recommend hitting that early (and probably on a weekday). By the time we finished dinner (walk-up at Homecomin'), DS was far more crowded, and we noticed a number of people not wearing masks properly. WOD line wrapped all the way around the building.
Thurs: Epcot - rope dropped TT and then Soarin (walked on both), it was great for the first few hours, but the food lines got long by about 1 or so - they were still shorter than a normal F&W, IMO. Rode a bunch of other stuff, including Frozen and Soarin' again - lines did seem very long, but they moved fast. Headed out at 6.
Fri - DHS - got BG2, took an Uber to the Speedway nearby and walked over to be in line for rope drop - walked onto MMRR, waited 30 min for SDD, walked on TSMM, and then just dealt with lines for the rest of the day. Mobile ordered lunch, placed the order at 10:45, I think, scheduled it for 11:45, that went smoothly. It got stupid crowded around 1-2, so we went back to the hotel, then returned for the holiday-themed Hollywood and Vine dinner - The food was meh IMO, but my niece was absolutely delighted
Departed the park after it closed, which was really neat!
Sat - We sprung for a VIP tour - did 22 rides, all headliners (except ROTR, which isn't part of the deal because of the BG requirement) across all 4 parks. This was obscenely expensive, but given the pandemic and our limited time at WDW, it was so worth it!!!! I don't anticipate doing it again, but it was fantastic, and I had no regrets, even when I got my credit card bill. The parks were ridiculous on Saturday. Epcot in particular was a madhouse and mask compliance was maybe 90% with some overt violators (no masks at all), our tour guide kept trying to ask others to put masks on, and she got some rude responses - one moronic 20-something actually started cursing at her. !!!
Sun - MK, rope-dropped, rode everything we wanted (mine train, splash, space, BTMRR, peter pan, buzz, jungle cruise, pirates) by about 12:30. Mobile ordered from Pecos Bill, our only time eating counter service inside, and it seemed a little crowded to me. Just as I was finishing my meal, a guy nearby me sneezed - I looked at my sister and said, "I'm out! Meet you in front!" From there, we wound our way back to the Emporium (no line) shopped a bit, and took off because things were getting really crowded (maybe 1 pm). I went back to the resort and read in the Contemporary main concourse until it was time to head to the airport.
Thoughts: as always, planning is required, but it's a bit different than it was in "the before times."
1) Rope drop - it's a must.
2) Mobile order - do it early.
3) Epcot - no on Saturday if you're at all concerned about crowds. Just no.
4) Heading back to the resort during the mid-day crush is still a great idea, just like before.
5) Shops - go early.
6) Masks/crowds - To the extent this could be controlled (there are a few pinch points, but they are more walk-through/walk past places) I thought things were OK. The vast majority of people are following Disney guidelines and more on occasion- doing everything they can to care for themselves/their families and others. One time I was uncomfortable with someone's proximity in line, and I asked her very nicely if she minded giving me more space - she was a sweetheart about it. Another time, there was a guy in front of us in line that was purposely pulling his mask up only when the CM looked our way - when the CM directed us into the same ride boat, I asked if we could wait for the next one and sort of side-eyed the guest in question - the CM knew exactly what was up and put us in the next boat (the guy and his whole family immediately removed masks once the boat started moving - a great call on our part). In general, it was ok. I felt like my flights (and the airports) were far worse.
It isn't the same as before, but I was happy with our trip in general! It was wonderful to feel semi-normal for a few days.