Congrats! What were some of the coincidences? Yours sounds like quite a success story.I believe in soulmates. There were a lot of coincidences that brought my husband and I together. I believe it was fate. We both knew it was love at first sight when we met. It just felt right. We’ve been happily married for 41 years this October. ❤
You hit the nail on the head! This is the way I feel about it too. We started dating because we were attracted to each other, enjoyed each other’s company and had fun together. Shared values were the clincher. And after all these years growing together, we can’t imagine life with anyone else.My husband and I have grown and changed so much over the 27 years we have known each other. We had a fantastic romance/love story, but I still don't think we were necessarily a perfect match or absolutely "meant to be". The key is that over time we have grown together. Now there is certainly no one else out there that would be a better spouse for me, but that's because there's no one else who has had decades of developing and changing along with me to become the perfect fit.
I think some of us have a different definition of soul mates. To me, it means two people who fit perfectly together. They're happiest, when they're together & they don't like being apart. Basisically, one oompletes the other.
For me, it isn't about personality. At least, not my personality. During my first marriage, I chose to spend a lot of time with my friends. The same was true, when I dated other guys. After awhile, I wanted time away from them. I don't feel that way with DH. Anytime I'm apart from him it's out of obligation not choice.You hit the nail on the head! This is the way I feel about it too. We started dating because we were attracted to each other, enjoyed each other’s company and had fun together. Shared values were the clincher. And after all these years growing together, we can’t imagine life with anyone else.
I wonder if this is partly a personality thing. DH and I value our time together, but we also value and need our time with our friends. We each do girls nights and guys nights regularly. We even take girls vacations and guys vacations. Our daughter is a lot like us. She really needs that interaction with her friends. She dated a guy for a while whose whole world revolved around her. He was happiest when they were together and didn’t like it when they were apart. Eventually it stifled her. She realized they were a personality mismatch. He needed a girl that felt like he was her whole world. My daughter’s current BF is the center of her universe, but he happily shares orbit with all the other planets in her life.
Well, I don't dream in intricate detail, or if I do, I don't remember those details when I wake up. But basically, in appearance. Long red hair. Given that the woman I dated over the years before my wife were all blonde.You're saying that the woman you clicked with was identical to the woman you dream about as a teen? Were they identical only in appearance? That I find very interesting! I've heard stories like yours. I know of a special FX artist who drew a picture of a woman, and later dated a woman who looked exactly like that (without prior knowledge of her existence).
Single for my whole life but tacos never let me down.I'm 43 and single...so I'm going with the tacos
What happened to your DIS board girlfriend? Your DGF? I thought you two would have been spinning together in the Teacups by now!