FlightlessDuck
Y kant Donald fly?
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- Jun 20, 2006
I think you should wait until you see how his treatment is going, etc., before making a decision to cancel or go by yourself.
I wanna extend this, because I think a lot of people are saying what I was feeling.
It's October. Your best friend is in chemo. Things are going to be rough for him for awhile. Maybe you can offer help by providing meals for him, going to Dr.'s appointments, and just being a good friend. That sounds like what you are doing so far.
When January comes around, and he's continuing his chemo, maybe he's settled in to this treatment. He'll be doing it for a few months. It will be old hat by then, right? Terrible, but at least it's the routine. So maybe he wants you to go so he doesn't feel like he's dragging you down with him. He's fine. He's getting chemo. You're a great friend. Etc.
So wait. Maybe things will improve. Maybe he'll be fine. Maybe he won't -- and then you cancel. But if he doesn't want you to feel guilty and/or he's keeping you from your favorite vacation, you should at least hold off on cancelling until you know how things are going.
Does that make sense?
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