I'm wondering the same thing -- why the hate for the poodle?! I have a standard poodle. He's a rescue, but he's full poodle (he was an owner surrender and they turned over his papers too). He's a super sweet dog, quick learning, eager to please. People always ask "ooh, is he a doodle?" Um, no... he's a poodle. And he's awesome. For what it's worth, you don't have to trim poodles into the frou-frou dog show haircuts. We keep ours in something between a sporting clip and a kennel clip. Much more low-maintenance.
For what it's worth, my DH wasn't really sold on getting a poodle. He likes "manly dogs" like retrievers and setters. (We also have a Lab. The rescue told us that she's full-Lab -- bred by an Amish breeder who planned to kill the litter when it didn't sell. They agreed to turn the litter over to rescue, but refused to give the papers. Our Lab does NOT have a good temperment. She's always trying to get away with something and is food aggressive. She does pretty well with me, but we've never been able to let the kids feed her, etc -- and they're teens now. I still don't trust her with them if there's food involved. You hear about Labs being so docile. Ours is NOT.)
I grew up with poodles and I convinced him to at least meet this one when I saw it available for rescue. We've had him for 5 years now, and DH is a poodle convert... as long as I agree not to get it a "silly haircut."
Poodles rock-smart, trainable and hard working. They were bred as gun dogs and many of them excel as retrievers. The froo-froo dog show hair cut is actually a retriever trim gone grossly wrong but I prefer them in a continental clip although that is what causes people to assume they are doodles. Yes labs can have flakely temperaments-but those that do should not produce the next generation. Unforunately the Amish are less concerned about things like health and temperament than $$ and don't often make good decisions.
My breed is Bernese Mountain Dogs-a breed known for their love of children and general gentleness-but that is, as so many things can be an over generalization. There was a blood line from eastern Europe that produced many dogs with idiopathic rage syndrome, but careful breeding has removed it from most dogs that come from preservation breeders these days. It does still appear in some dogs from less quality breeders. And those are the dogs that often end up with doodle producers. I applaud those that have amazing experiences with their poodle cross dogs regardless of what the other parent breed is.