I'm not "meek" with my doctor. OTOH, I don't pretend to know more than she does about whatever medical issue she's discussing with me. The former isn't a problem. The latter is. And, that's what I'm talking about. My MIL is the WORST at this. She is a retired pharmacist. She does know a lot about drug interactions, etc. She doesn't know as much as her doctor about her heart condition, but she pretends that she does.
I'll give you another example. I'm an elected official in a lower level of government. On my same board, there's a gentleman who is a financial planner. At one of our meetings, he's pulling out statute books, and lecturing us on the law. We are being advised by an attorney actually an expert in that area of the law, and this gentleman is ARGUING with the lawyer and telling him he's wrong. Heck, I'm a lawyer, and *I* was deferring to the city's lawyer because (guess what), I'm not an expert in that area of the law. It was insulting to the lawyer. I'd never presume to tell this gentleman he's WRONG on some area of financial planning, or lecture him about it. But, he read a small amount and decided he knew better than the lawyer. SMH. That's what I'm talking about.