if you are already planning on sending leftover turkey home-save the hassle of dealing with it on the holiday by buying 2 smaller turkeys one of which you cook, carve and pack into to-go containers the day before (i'm actually making extra smaller versions of a few dishes in foil to go containers for dd-i'll cook them at the same time as the ones i serve but that way i can do smaller versions for dinner and not have big old casserole dishes eating up my fridge space or overcrowding the dishwasher),
do as much advance prep work leisurely days in advance as you can: i'm boiling eggs tomorrow, i'll chop nuts monday, chop onions/celery tuesday, wednesday we (dh
) makes the pies while i set up the fridge and counter 'for battle', peel the eggs and make the filling to put in the next morning (so they don't get eaten the night before),
pick a no leftover/easy to eat meal for wednesday night (i'm a big fan of a papa murphys purchased the day before on $10 tuesday), use paper plates so that you can start the next day with an empty dishwasher and sink.
i so miss the old sacramento news station i used to watch every thanksgiving-their morning show always ran a reel of 'thanksgiving turkey frying catastrophes' viewers would submit (i love fried turkey but those videos of fryers tipping over and oil spill flames engulfing patios have me too afraid to every try doing it on my own).