sonnyjane
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- Mar 11, 2009
I don't anticipate fights. It's a safe zone for my cat to not be afraid that I'm concerned with.
Every time you mention your first cat you refer to her as "my cat". They are BOTH your cats now. The male seems to be settling in nicely now and your female, in order to sit outside your bedroom and stare at you with the male under your bed for 20 minutes clearly isn't terrified. If she was terrified she'd be as far as she could physically be from the male. If you choose to keep both and want to start making progress, you just let them be together. There couldn't be a more simple solution.