Children Missing School

Mainsail Minnie

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Jul 28, 2019
With a child who has Autism and school that doesn't have a good program that fits which results in my child missing chunks of school due to the schools insistence you can't sell me on how important it is that they don't miss time for vacation. If it was that important they wouldn't be telling us, sorry we have a sub for the next three days so maybe your child should stay home.
I hope you find a different school for your child. The one he or she is at is completely unacceptable.
 

luvmy2babies

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Apr 23, 2010
Well, it turns out I'm in this boat now. My daughter's school switched their schedule up and now instead of starting school on August 26th, they are starting on the 8th. Our trip is the 14th through the 20th. It's a program they are trying to boost the school's performance. They've aligned the calendar with a local community college. Some students will be eligible to go over to take classes for credit. But they are the only district school doing this so they will be on an entirely different schedule than other traditional calendar schools in the county including the one my other child attends. I only had 2 years left with my children on the same schedule and now the school has taken those 2 years away.
 

NYCgrrl

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Jul 13, 2017
Well, it turns out I'm in this boat now. My daughter's school switched their schedule up and now instead of starting school on August 26th, they are starting on the 8th. Our trip is the 14th through the 20th. It's a program they are trying to boost the school's performance. They've aligned the calendar with a local community college. Some students will be eligible to go over to take classes for credit. But they are the only district school doing this so they will be on an entirely different schedule than other traditional calendar schools in the county including the one my other child attends. I only had 2 years left with my children on the same schedule and now the school has taken those 2 years away.
That is annoying. Will the policy change go into effect this month or next August? On the bright side the college credits should be useful down the road and better acclimatize the children to the next level of educational expectations.
 
  • luvmy2babies

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    Apr 23, 2010
    That is annoying. Will the policy change go into effect this month or next August? On the bright side the college credits should be useful down the road and better acclimatize the children to the next level of educational expectations.
    It goes into effect this year. My daughter is a junior. My son is in 4th grade. Although she is considering the community college for her first 2 years after high school, I doubt she'll be in this program. I am sure it will be beneficial for some. For quite a few reasons one of which being they don't share any off days outside of the Thanksgiving and Winter holidays, it's going to make my life harder. I requested a transfer.
     

    NYCgrrl

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    It goes into effect this year. My daughter is a junior. My son is in 4th grade. Although she is considering the community college for her first 2 years after high school, I doubt she'll be in this program. I am sure it will be beneficial for some. For quite a few reasons one of which being they don't share any off days outside of the Thanksgiving and Winter holidays, it's going to make my life harder. I requested a transfer.
    Oh I see we share an age grouping of children or as I used to call it "the long goodbye"; 6 year gap for me as well:). Great for planning college costs, braces and getting to spend time solo, at the start and end with each child.

    It used to be so much easier to plan their summers back in the day since whether elementary, jhs, or hs there was always at least a month their vacation time overlapped. I wish you joy with the solution of this educational conundrum and am sure you'll find the right answer for your loved ones. :cool:.
     

    dez1978

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    Apr 11, 2019
    We took my 2 nd grader out for the last week of school unintentionally last year. They were supposed to be out that tues, so he would have only missed 2 days, but we got so.much.snow.... They only went to school maybe 6 days in January.

    This year we are going the last week of January. My boys will be in 3rd and kindergarten. My nephews, in another district are going too and will be 5th and kindergarten. I don't feel particularly bad about it. I think they will be ok, but hoping for a snow day in there lol. I look at it like this, it's my kid, if I want to take him out, I will. If they want to give me too much crap about it, I'll send him to a private school and they will lose the funding. However, we get like 16 days a year before it's an issue, so I think we will be fine.
     

    gtpoohbear

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    Apr 15, 2008
    We never hesitate to take the kids out of school for a few days if our travel plans require it, though we've never taken them out for a whole week. They are starting 11th and 4th this year, and will miss two days in May for our Disneyland trip. Because of other obligations, that's the only time we can go, so a couple days of school isn't going to stand in our way, lol!

    I was a middle school teacher for 10 years, so I am very aware of the importance of education. But I also see how a few days of school fits into the grand scheme of life, and it's just not worth disrupting your plans and family time over. I'm surprised to see so many say that their school would not excuse the absence. We have been in 3 different school districts so far, and none have ever so much as batted an eye when I simply told them the kids would be absent because we were traveling. I don't really consider it their business - they don't own my kids. When I was teaching, I had multiple kids out every day, for all sorts of reasons. I never even asked why, just gave them what they missed, and if they turned it back in, they got full credit. I was never aware of any of the schools I worked in (in two different states) giving anyone a hard time about absences due to family travel.

    From a former teacher's perspective - a few things to consider. Don't assume that you can get all of their work before you go. I almost never gave out makeup work ahead of time. It was rare for me to even have materials prepared more than a day or two in advance. Besides, it's not much of a vacation if you make them spend the whole time working - if you're going to miss school, at least make it relaxing! Also, remember that not everything can be "made up". They don't just sit around and do worksheets all day, that they could just as easily do at home. A lot of what they will miss is direct instruction, discussions, labs, group projects, etc. You may have to fill some of those gaps yourself with your own resources, as the teacher can't be expected to individually re-teach every lesson. I know this all makes it sound like you "shouldn't go", but again. Grand scheme of life. They'll be okay. Just set your expectations accordingly. :goodvibes
     
  • ama123

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    Feb 20, 2018
    We have taken our daughter out for family vacation every year or every other year. She is a good student. Honestly though, as others have said, it has been our experience that it has gotten harder as she has gotten older. 5th grade was the last year it was "easy" for her to miss a week. She was in 6th last year and she only missed 3 days (planned a vacation around a Thursday and Friday school was closed) but it was still no where near as easy. She will be in 7th grade this year and I'm feeling hesitant about even 2 or 3 days. Although it will work if we do I am much more consciously trying to avoid it now.
     

    nuclearturtle

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    Jul 7, 2019
    We have 4 children and have taken our kids our of school twice over the years. Our youngest is 17 now and living in the Northeast and having 4 kids we were only able to make it twice to DW. With that being said we didn't want to fight lines and get the most enjoyment possible for the time that we were there. Looking back our last trip with all of them was in 2015 and we'd do the exact same thing again... zero regrets.
     

    Twitterpaited

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    Jul 16, 2018
    We are taking my daughter (5th grade) out of school for 4 days this fall. You will be judged no matter what you decide. There are many variables to this decision. Ultimately do what makes you happy. I think that ANYTIME a family can be together in Disney is a good time to go. Family first.

    FYI. We took her out last year and it was A LOT of work to make up.
    Why would you be judged for NOT taking your children out of school?
     

    starearedkid

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    Feb 22, 2014
    We are taking our third grader out of school for a week. It is her “second wish trip”. But because it is a smaller foundation than MAW, with less resources we didn’t have much say on travel dates due to cost of airfare etc.

    Our daughter already has anxiety about making up her school work. We are going in October.

    I am also anxious as a teacher taking the time off. We get 3 personal dates, and I will go off payroll for two days. We don’t have the flight confirmation yet, but once I do I am going to hand in all the paperwork for it to be approved.
     
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