Disney's answer to that will be a very politely worded version of "there are lots of other hotels in Orlando."
That's what I'm not understanding about the continued rehashing of this topic with such a high level of anger and even fear. When the news of the parking fees came out, there was discussion, there was debate, there was anger, there were questions. Within a couple of weeks, posters sorted themselves into two camps: the ones who didn't want to pay the fee and announced that they were going to stay elsewhere from now on, and the ones who didn't like it but still felt it was worth it to stay onsite. And the discussion pretty much ended there, except for the occasional question. That's the usual progression here on the boards when Disney makes a policy change that's unpopular. That's kind of how it went on the DVC boards when news of the room checks first came out, and DVC owners have a whole lot more skin in the game than a hotel guest.
The tenor of a lot of these posts is anger that Disney is forcing this on guests, and there's no way to avoid it. Of course it can be avoided. There are over three hundred hotels in the Orlando area. No one is forced to stay at a Disney resort. If the room check policy angers you, upsets you, frightens you, or just takes the fun out of your vacation, you're free to make a different hotel choice. And you should - vacations are supposed to be fun and relaxing. If a hotel's doing something that makes your vacation not-fun or not-relaxing, pick a different hotel with policies that work for you.
I know that if a hotel I'd booked started a policy that made me worried for my safety, I'd have that reservation cancelled and a different hotel booked by the end of the day.