monsterkitty
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Sep 5, 2005
My mam passed away July 22nd this year my birthday. Dont feel like I will celebrate my birthday again
I understand. My dad passed away on my 13th birthday and my stepdad passed away the day before my birthday several years later. The next few birthdays were not fun. However, as I grew older I realized that not celebrating my birthday was the equivalent of not celebrating life. My dad would have been upset if we didn't focus on how we live but rather when he died.
When my stepdad died the day before my birthday a few years ago, it did make me wonder about the date.
Hugs to you. It will be hard for a few years, but hopefully you will again enjoy the day and the celebration of life.