Dumped before Disney

Discussion in 'Coping and Compassion' started by Dfulton13, Jan 21, 2017.

  1. bare_foot_mama

    bare_foot_mama Earning My Ears

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    So sorry that happened to you! Good to see that a baby on the way has been a distraction though.

    Personally I would be very wary of his intentions here. Why break up with you just before a trip and then expect or even want to go. Mixed signals suck! It's also giving the impression that the trip meant more to him than the relationship. Take a good girl friend with you or if you are comfortable pamper yourself! You'll have way more fun without his shenanigans.
     
  2. ajc

    ajc Earning My Ears

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    My sister took a colorado ski trip with a "player" which was booked 3 months in advance and they had a horrible time (...she thought his secrecy was about an impending proposal and it was about a break up...). They slept separately in the chalet with 2 other couples having to absorb the angst.
    He changed his return flight so he wouldn't have to sit with her and she cried all the way home from the trip. GO ALONE!!!
     
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  4. MetalMasterC

    MetalMasterC Aura of Misfortune

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    Seriously, that is just many levels of awkward. Just go alone.
     
  5. perditax

    perditax DIS Veteran

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    The post is from January and OP only appeared to have registered to post this thread.
     
  6. adisneyaunt

    adisneyaunt DIS Veteran

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    I hope by now ur feeling a bit better with the situation.
    You deserve better than this kind of
    Relationship.
    Hope you decide to go with. Friend, go with a family member of go alone!
    Enjoy that trip that You worked to pay off. And take his Advise..
    Go meet other people.. you're worth it!
     
  7. AmySabato

    AmySabato Earning My Ears

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    Ditto! Brilliant!
     
  8. budgie

    budgie Earning My Ears

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    Oh wow I'm so sorry to hear that. No way would I take him though that is just asking for drama and trouble. I agree with everyone else don't bring that kind of baggage. Go alone or with a friend/family member and have a great time. Maybe some other solo peoples from the board will be there when you are and you can meet some new friends :)
     
  9. ajc

    ajc Earning My Ears

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    BTW it is June now I am am curious how your trip went (we disney-philes have to support each other!)
     
  10. dvc at last !

    dvc at last ! DVC Member 2006!

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    Love this answer !
     
  11. gryffindors

    gryffindors goof of the week

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    I snorted at this comment... AND I completely agree!
     
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  12. kaspurr

    kaspurr Long time Disney lover earning her ears.

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    Amen :worship:
     
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  13. BarbieStephanie

    BarbieStephanie Earning My Ears

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    Go alone! youll make friends and have so much fun doing your own thing!
     
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  14. BobbyDukes

    BobbyDukes Mouseketeer

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    Go alone or ask a best friend. Not only will a spontaneous trip with a friend be fun but it may help you get over Whats his face.
     

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