TheConsciousness
Coaster Skeptic
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2016
Has anyone ever found their child hiding drugs or alcohol from them?
How did you react?
How old were they?
How did you react?
How old were they?
Has anyone ever found their child hiding drugs or alcohol from them?
How did you react?
How old were they?
No and no. I did find a "girlie" magazine tucked away in the drawer I always used once a month in the bathroom if you KWIM. My oldest son at the time was 14 and he and his buddy thought that drawer was never used. Well guess what; Ma found the magazine and had a little chit chat with my son at the time. And you know what, I just spent one of the best weekends of my life with that son, his pregnant wife and my glorious little grandson just this weekend, 24 years later!
Drugs and alcohol........probably a lot different, tho. Good luck OP!
My aunt learned that my cousin had "tried heroin" and three weeks later, my cousin died from heroin laced with fentanyl. Her friends say she was not an addict, used maybe 3-4 times, and it wasn't an overdose - just bad drugs. Point being is that even if kids are experimenting by dabbling in drugs of any kind, it can go awry very quickly. It can't be taken seriously enough.
My aunt obviously did not have time to intervene, but in retrospect, she would have loved to have a heart to heart with my cousin while being open, level-headed, and non-judgmental. I think if my cousin had felt open about sharing why she was doing what she was doing, she would have been receptive to help and change. Anger, sadness, etc. are normal reactions but it needs to be approached with caution IMO.