BobBrazeal
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 5, 2001
I do most of my trips solo (and a lot of them). I'm single but even during those times when I'm seeing someone seriously enough to vacation with them, it isn't always possible to match up vacation time from work. Sometimes the money isn't always there at the same time either. Consequently, I do find that many of my trips are solo.
However a few have been with friends, family or someone I'm seeing. I guess it is like the relationship itself. If it is right, things click to a certain degree and if it isn't right, it seems that nothing clicks. Of course, even in a good relationship, not everything is perfect, but I won't go there in this thread.
I've had a few trips that I've shared with others that were much more a burden than they were a vacation. It wasn't that we were at odds with each other, it was just that I really wished at the time that I had been there alone, that I would be having a lot more fun. Of course none of those relationships lasted either. Now, I've had the opposite as well where the trip was twice as good for sharing it with someone else and I never felt that my "Disney time" was being wasted or taken from me.
Does any of this make sense? Has anyone else every had this happen to them?
However a few have been with friends, family or someone I'm seeing. I guess it is like the relationship itself. If it is right, things click to a certain degree and if it isn't right, it seems that nothing clicks. Of course, even in a good relationship, not everything is perfect, but I won't go there in this thread.
I've had a few trips that I've shared with others that were much more a burden than they were a vacation. It wasn't that we were at odds with each other, it was just that I really wished at the time that I had been there alone, that I would be having a lot more fun. Of course none of those relationships lasted either. Now, I've had the opposite as well where the trip was twice as good for sharing it with someone else and I never felt that my "Disney time" was being wasted or taken from me.
Does any of this make sense? Has anyone else every had this happen to them?