MIGrandma
Lives in the middle-of-the-mitten.
- Joined
- Aug 12, 2009
Our adult children are 41 and 38, both married, and we have 7 grandchildren (24, 21, 18, 15, 12, 12, and 8).
We buy each person a small gift so they have something from under the tree to open, then we give cards with cash in to each person as well. Our son and daughter get more cash than the grands do, and we typically give each of the married couples another gift as well (like a restaurant gift card, gift certificate to a bed & breakfast, etc.).
Then everyone's favorite thing at our family Christmas gathering is our gift exchange or sometimes called "white elephant." If you're going to participate (and everyone does) you buy a gift in the $20-$25 range, then we put them all in a pile and draw numbers. #1 opens a gift, #2 can open a gift OR they can steal from #1, and so on. It's fun to see which gifts are the popular ones and get "stolen" more than once. We enjoy the game so much that everyone wanted to do it twice so now we each buy TWO gifts. The younger grands have just started participating, their parents used to buy them a small gift (toy) to open while the adults were playing the game, but they are now old enough that they enjoy participating too.
This year there will be a GREAT-grandchild (due in September) and I plan to just buy toys/outfits equal to the amount we spend on the other grands. She won't have use for cash yet, and I don't trust her parents not to keep it for themselves.
If a grandchild brings a boyfriend/girlfriend, they get a small gift to open and a smaller amount of cash in a card.
I used to do stockings for the grandchildren, but in 2015 when my Mom went into a nursing home I stopped doing that as it was just too much to deal with. I of course let everyone know I wasn't going to do the stockings any longer, so they wouldn't be surprised and/or disappointed when we had our get-together and they all understood. In fact, our oldest granddaughter made a canvas painting for us of a snow globe with our house in the center, and wrote a heart-felt message on the back. I cried. Also, my DIL made a 4-foot stocking and all the kids/grandkids filled it for me, with all my favorite things, and made clay "snowmen" to look like themselves, and clay Christmas ornaments, etc. I was so touched, and it really made my Christmas so special that year and I will never forget it.
We buy each person a small gift so they have something from under the tree to open, then we give cards with cash in to each person as well. Our son and daughter get more cash than the grands do, and we typically give each of the married couples another gift as well (like a restaurant gift card, gift certificate to a bed & breakfast, etc.).
Then everyone's favorite thing at our family Christmas gathering is our gift exchange or sometimes called "white elephant." If you're going to participate (and everyone does) you buy a gift in the $20-$25 range, then we put them all in a pile and draw numbers. #1 opens a gift, #2 can open a gift OR they can steal from #1, and so on. It's fun to see which gifts are the popular ones and get "stolen" more than once. We enjoy the game so much that everyone wanted to do it twice so now we each buy TWO gifts. The younger grands have just started participating, their parents used to buy them a small gift (toy) to open while the adults were playing the game, but they are now old enough that they enjoy participating too.
This year there will be a GREAT-grandchild (due in September) and I plan to just buy toys/outfits equal to the amount we spend on the other grands. She won't have use for cash yet, and I don't trust her parents not to keep it for themselves.
If a grandchild brings a boyfriend/girlfriend, they get a small gift to open and a smaller amount of cash in a card.
I used to do stockings for the grandchildren, but in 2015 when my Mom went into a nursing home I stopped doing that as it was just too much to deal with. I of course let everyone know I wasn't going to do the stockings any longer, so they wouldn't be surprised and/or disappointed when we had our get-together and they all understood. In fact, our oldest granddaughter made a canvas painting for us of a snow globe with our house in the center, and wrote a heart-felt message on the back. I cried. Also, my DIL made a 4-foot stocking and all the kids/grandkids filled it for me, with all my favorite things, and made clay "snowmen" to look like themselves, and clay Christmas ornaments, etc. I was so touched, and it really made my Christmas so special that year and I will never forget it.