wgeo
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 2, 2011
My son is 15 with his permit. Down here they take the "classroom" portion online and we can pay to do a behind the wheel with an instructor but you don't have to. So far we haven't paid because he's doing fairly well.
One of the things that worked was that I started giving a color play by play when I drove. Like overkill. For example, "ok now I'm increasing my speed up to the speed limit which is 35, I'm looking in the mirror and I see a car coming behind us but he's moving pretty slow, so I just gonna keep an eye on him. Now I'm looking at the side streets and I don't see anyone that's gonna pull out. Ok, now we are coming up on a slow driver in the right hand lane and it looks like they are maintaining a steady speed and so I'm not worried about them coming into our lane."
Honestly, it was kind of exhausting, but I've noticed that whenever he drives somewhere new he starts narrating things out loud himself! I'm not even sure if he knows he's doing it but it clearly is calming him down. He doesn't do it on the road back and forth to school that he's driven a bunch, just on new areas.
One of the things that worked was that I started giving a color play by play when I drove. Like overkill. For example, "ok now I'm increasing my speed up to the speed limit which is 35, I'm looking in the mirror and I see a car coming behind us but he's moving pretty slow, so I just gonna keep an eye on him. Now I'm looking at the side streets and I don't see anyone that's gonna pull out. Ok, now we are coming up on a slow driver in the right hand lane and it looks like they are maintaining a steady speed and so I'm not worried about them coming into our lane."
Honestly, it was kind of exhausting, but I've noticed that whenever he drives somewhere new he starts narrating things out loud himself! I'm not even sure if he knows he's doing it but it clearly is calming him down. He doesn't do it on the road back and forth to school that he's driven a bunch, just on new areas.