My nearly 18 year relationship has been in a struggle for a couple of years & I am wondering if anyone out there has a similar experience.
My nearly 18 year relationship has been in a struggle for a couple of years & I am wondering if anyone out there has a similar experience.
Some background: my DBF & I are both in our 40s & have never lived together. He is divorced with a daughter-now college aged. He is a kind, funny, stubborn, hard-working man. Nobody is perfect, but he has been perfect for me for a long time & we have many great years & memories together both as a couple & with our kids (I have 3).
The problem: his ex wife has spent years badmouthing me to their daughter. At this point, his daughter has made it clear she does not want me in her life. Naturally, this has created strain/tension. At a couple of family events, I was snubbed & she now refuses to attend anything if I will be there. Likewise, my BF will no longer ask me to go somewhere if his DD will be there. For example, she is home from college & his whole family was getting together at his sister's home. He told me "we're going to C's house Friday night...you & I are going to go out to dinner with them sometime in January".
My nearly 18 year relationship has been in a struggle for a couple of years & I am wondering if anyone out there has a similar experience.
Some background: my DBF & I are both in our 40s & have never lived together. He is divorced with a daughter-now college aged. He is a kind, funny, stubborn, hard-working man. Nobody is perfect, but he has been perfect for me for a long time & we have many great years & memories together both as a couple & with our kids (I have 3).
The problem: his ex wife has spent years badmouthing me to their daughter. At this point, his daughter has made it clear she does not want me in her life. Naturally, this has created strain/tension. At a couple of family events, I was snubbed & she now refuses to attend anything if I will be there. Likewise, my BF will no longer ask me to go somewhere if his DD will be there. For example, she is home from college & his whole family was getting together at his sister's home. He told me "we're going to C's house Friday night...you & I are going to go out to dinner with them sometime in January".
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