Maybe me more so than my sons. But, yeah, they literally have no feelings for their grandparents. Why would they? They go to family get events, but feel like outsiders. They don't even know their grandparents, while my daughters were doted upon, taken on vacations constantly, and showered with every gift they could ever need or want. And meanwhile, my sons got nothing. You don't think that causes emotional harm? Oh pleazzz, yourself!
I shouldn't have let any of it happen. I tried to put a stop to it all on several occasions but ended up giving in after a few months. For all they put into my girls, nobody loves my parents. You can't buy love. They think they are the perfect grandparents, and are totally in denial about what pieces of crap they are. Everyone just waiting on them to die so we can have their money. I thought they were the best parents in the world before my sons were born. Now, I won't shed a tear when they go.
Of course they have their favorites of the great grandchildren as well. It's quite hurtful. Myself, and 3 of my grown children, stay as far away from them as we can get, only seeing them on holidays or when they need something done, even though they live less than 10 miles from us.