This is the situation:
My sister-in-law passed away 1 1/2 weeks ago. They were not having a service, I sent sympathy cards to my BIL, and my 4 nieces. The oldest niece is from my SIL’s first marriage. The oldest niece has been in the family longer than me, which is 30 years, so in my opinion, she isn’t a “step anything”, she is simply my niece.
So, the sympathy cards got mailed earlier this week.
Tonight, I received a text from the oldest niece, thanking us for the card and the note. She mentioned she just returned home from her dad’s funeral. Her dad passed away, ironically, within 2 hours of her mom. How sad to loose both parents on the same day. (They’ve been divorced for ~35 years).
The question, do I send her another sympathy card?
I feel so bad for her, my BIL and SIL moved AZ about 2 years ago, and the other nieces are in MN, CO, and WA. I feel like this niece (and her husband and kids) are in WI, across the state from where we are, but with no one from her mom’s side of the family.
Thanks for helping me figure this out, My gut reaction is to send her one.
My sister-in-law passed away 1 1/2 weeks ago. They were not having a service, I sent sympathy cards to my BIL, and my 4 nieces. The oldest niece is from my SIL’s first marriage. The oldest niece has been in the family longer than me, which is 30 years, so in my opinion, she isn’t a “step anything”, she is simply my niece.
So, the sympathy cards got mailed earlier this week.
Tonight, I received a text from the oldest niece, thanking us for the card and the note. She mentioned she just returned home from her dad’s funeral. Her dad passed away, ironically, within 2 hours of her mom. How sad to loose both parents on the same day. (They’ve been divorced for ~35 years).
The question, do I send her another sympathy card?
I feel so bad for her, my BIL and SIL moved AZ about 2 years ago, and the other nieces are in MN, CO, and WA. I feel like this niece (and her husband and kids) are in WI, across the state from where we are, but with no one from her mom’s side of the family.
Thanks for helping me figure this out, My gut reaction is to send her one.