Just thought of some things we do with in law trips where SIL and BIL love to eat at signatures. Other SIL claimed headache, stayed in room and ate at CS at resort when SIL chose AP for dinner. Then another trip just us two couples had Cali Grill booked and DH was griping about it. Two reasons were cost and dressing up. It was towards the end of a 12 day trip where we drove in with both our cars so DH claimed he had to leave early to get back to work...and he likely did have a lot of work to get to but he had been working from Disney just fine until the day we had Cali Grill booked. He was also a telecommuter at the time so what was difference between working from home and working from Disney???? So I knew it was to avoid CG that night. I went, however, with BIL and SIL and had the best meal ever. Though I was stressed about what I would order due to DH' s frugalness ( to be fair we did have financial struggles at that time). Didn't get sushi app I wanted or glass of wine or dessert...just meal.