TammyLynn33
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2008
Thank you. I felt totally attacked when I said I was at my “breaking point “and needed away. Was told my breaking point being a vacation was a first world problem etc etc. ( why be like this with a person who just said they are at their breaking point ? )
No one knows what an individual or family is going through . Judging and shaming won’t help anyone .
It’s not just vacation shaming , it’s schooling it’s those eating out , even Halloween. I’ve told people on we are not participating this year and it was “ well my kids are they won’t forgive me / they need to go “ etc I feel shamed because we aren’t participating .
Everyone is tired , at different places , has different needs. The only thing that can help
All of us get through this is kindness.
Stepping off my soapbox from my breaking point .
QUOTE="Makmak, post: 62418165, member: 665167"]
I believe travel shaming has no place on what is literally a travel forum. For how long shall we sit home and stare at the walls? Until a vaccine? Oxford and the US CDC have two of the “leading” vaccines in development and both have said we can “hope for” a 50% effectiveness rating. The vaccine is being developed from SARS vaccine materials (there was not ever success with a SARS vaccine btw). This is here to stay. Most of what we see is “safety theatre” as it has been referred to on this forum in multiple threads. We can refer to mask materials testing to see this. Please don’t try to make people feel bad for finding some joy during this stressful time. The world is in a virus pandemic but we also have unprecedented social
problems from isolation and restriction including domestic violence, child abuse, and mental health crises. Many hospitals have no room for more psychiatric patients and our domestic violence shelters are as full as the lines at food banks and homeless shelters. If someone wants to take a trip:, I say “Take that trip.”
Edited: wanted to add that relapse into addiction is also occurring at alarming rates.
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No one knows what an individual or family is going through . Judging and shaming won’t help anyone .
It’s not just vacation shaming , it’s schooling it’s those eating out , even Halloween. I’ve told people on we are not participating this year and it was “ well my kids are they won’t forgive me / they need to go “ etc I feel shamed because we aren’t participating .
Everyone is tired , at different places , has different needs. The only thing that can help
All of us get through this is kindness.
Stepping off my soapbox from my breaking point .
QUOTE="Makmak, post: 62418165, member: 665167"]
I believe travel shaming has no place on what is literally a travel forum. For how long shall we sit home and stare at the walls? Until a vaccine? Oxford and the US CDC have two of the “leading” vaccines in development and both have said we can “hope for” a 50% effectiveness rating. The vaccine is being developed from SARS vaccine materials (there was not ever success with a SARS vaccine btw). This is here to stay. Most of what we see is “safety theatre” as it has been referred to on this forum in multiple threads. We can refer to mask materials testing to see this. Please don’t try to make people feel bad for finding some joy during this stressful time. The world is in a virus pandemic but we also have unprecedented social
problems from isolation and restriction including domestic violence, child abuse, and mental health crises. Many hospitals have no room for more psychiatric patients and our domestic violence shelters are as full as the lines at food banks and homeless shelters. If someone wants to take a trip:, I say “Take that trip.”
Edited: wanted to add that relapse into addiction is also occurring at alarming rates.
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