smokeyblue
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2009
I was filling in on day shift and came in to work one day to find out that the husband of my good friend and coworker had died by suicide the night before. We all had gone out just two nights prior and had plans to go out a few days later and it was absolutely shocking because they presented themselves as the perfect couple. The department I worked in was extremely close knit, really almost like a family. I spent most of the day on the phone letting my afternoon shift people know what happened. I was so mad at him for doing this to my friend and was searching for a reason why he'd do it. Well in the days weeks and months later the picture unfolded and I found out my friend was a total sociopath and she had royally screwed this very smart, kind and giving man over. What unfolded was so awful, shocking and downright bizarre it could have been a Lifetime movie. I felt very stupid for being there for her and consoling her at his funeral and honestly she couldn't have cared less he was dead and the whole thing was an act.
While she was off of work the few weeks after it happened I really wrestled with what to say to her. One day I gathered up the strength to give her a call and let her know I was thinking of her and was very sad about what happened. I didn't get even near the response I thought I'd get. She was gleeful if not jubilant that she had been dating and living with another man; her husband had only been dead for 3 weeks! I was just sick. It was just nauseating having to work with her once she returned because there was so much tension because everyone was just disgusted. Luckily for everyone's sake she quit a few weeks later pretty much not to be heard from again.
While she was off of work the few weeks after it happened I really wrestled with what to say to her. One day I gathered up the strength to give her a call and let her know I was thinking of her and was very sad about what happened. I didn't get even near the response I thought I'd get. She was gleeful if not jubilant that she had been dating and living with another man; her husband had only been dead for 3 weeks! I was just sick. It was just nauseating having to work with her once she returned because there was so much tension because everyone was just disgusted. Luckily for everyone's sake she quit a few weeks later pretty much not to be heard from again.