My 8 y/o dd didi the Tea Party last fall with her same age girlfriend. They both loved it! I thought they might be too old, but that wasn't the case. The had tea, aka apple juice, decorated cupcakes, played games, had photos taken by the cm's (this was terrific since we sent her off with a disposable camera). The other mother and I had dessert and drinks in the cafe at the GF for the hour they were at the Tea Party. I would recommend it to anyone with a dd. They were also very careful, security wise, with the kids. None of the kids were allowed to leave the room with-out a parent taking them. So that wasn't a worry.