Well to make a really long story short we're moving
NEXT WEEK!
The movers will be here the 8th to pack us up, load the truck on the 9th, and we're hitting the road on the 11th. Alan has the crazy idea in his head that we're going to load up all the animals (2 cats & 1 dog) each in their seperate carriers and take them to FL. OYE! This is going to be a LONG trip
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The moving truck will be there the 14th to unload everything. Alan will be getting back on a plane on the 17th to fly back to Dallas. He's going to load up the convertible on the flatbed and make the drive back.
Why'd we change plans from mid Oct to now? Well, I've been majorly stressed out this last week and a lot of it having nothing to do with the move. I've got my mom and best friend pulling me in different directions right now and I got fed up. Best friend has a new boyfriend (met him online and has only known him a month and they are already "exclusive"). She's all gung ho on "I want your approval and yada yada yada." I point blank told her I didn't care and she's going to date whoever whether I like him or not.
Well we met this guy on Saturday and let's just say I got a vibe from him that he's a homosexual. Now, I have no problem with this. One of my best friends from high school is homosexual and he hid it for years until after high school. She has yet to call me and ask me what I think but I can already tell you that's going to be an interesting conversation.
Then you add the stress of my mother expecting me to do anything and everything to her house even though she knows I'm leaving soon. I finally just snapped the other night after I asked best friend if she wanted to go to a ball game with us. She of course said yes and then asked if her new boyfriend to come along (I was expecting that). However what I wasn't expecting was she asked me to pay for HIS Rangers ticket! Yeah, that's not going to happen. I'm not paying for something for a complete stranger.
So, I've decided for my sanity and my health to get out of here ASAP. I've been so stressed out I'm physically getting ill to my stomach, not sleeping, and just exhausted. I do not need a hospital visit due to the stress. Everyone is pretty much in shock that I'm leaving this soon but I have to do what I have to do for me. I quit living life for other people 3.5 years ago.
Oh my gosh.... so much stuff going on... so much stress. PLEASE take a few hours to take care of yourself during all of this!
Is there anyone else besides Alan to help you out with all of this last minute stuff??
QOTD Tuesday, August 30
If you could have the "ear" of anyone you want at Disney who would it be and what would you tell them?
Oh my.... without taking a lot of time to think about this, my gut response is to repeat what someone else said (sort of).... bring back the MAGIC! I miss the days of SUPER CLEAN parks, lots of CM and characters around (this business of having to practically make an APPOINTMENT to meet a character is kind of
). I miss the "old days" of just "stumbling" over characters here and there around the parks.
That said, I would PRAISE them for some of the newer rides.... EE is fabulous, as is Soarin'.
I think that they should occasionally (maybe during low season) bring back old "favorites" like certain parades, etc. If your first visit to Epcot was during that (terribly in MHO) "Tapestry of Dreams" time, maybe you would like the opportunity to see it again.
I was SUPER SAD that SpectroMagic wasn't playing when I was there this past May with DD, but that said, I'm sure there were folks who were THRILLED that the Main Street Electrical parade has made a return visit!
I agree also with what Buffy said about the UNIQUE park merchandise. It is depressing to buy something special and then find it at the local mall the next week. I literally could NOT find something special to buy for myself this past May (unless I was willing to spend several hundred $$).
Okay..... enough whining about Disney!
We are okay. There is such widespread damage though. We are counting out blessings for building where we are. The dam is about 1/2 mile from our house. They normally keep the "lake" at about 30 feet. It was at 124 feet when we checked it out a couple of hours ago. It can still hold a lot more water and it is expected that the rivers will crest within the next day or so so we'll be fine. Our town seems to be fine too. The town that we work in was not so lucky. We lost the Quechee covered bridge, Simon Pearce has substancial damage and the realty/dentist office is practically gone. There are you tube videos for anyone interested (Quechee Covered Bridge). The new bridge that was built less than 2 years ago that we cross to get to camp is severely damaged and the road is too. We can't get to camp to assess damage, but it is on a steep hill and was okay yesterday afternoon so we're not too worried. The bridge that we cross between our house and my parents (about 5 miles from us) has a crack in it and is closed too. This morning all bridges in town were closed, but as the water levels dropped a bit and the conditions of the bridges were checked they were able to open some. Across the river in NH the shopping plazas were under water. I've seen pictures of the JcPenney store with water over 3 feet up the door. Kohl's had at least 5 feet of water and mud running through it. We drove through tonight and Sears had Stanley Steamer working on their store as did Kmart. Walmart had a sign "Closed until further notice". Chris thanked me for having the kids ready for school ahead of time as who knows where we would shop now.
We were planning to do a white water rafting trip in Lake George NY this weekend, but route 4 is closed which is the only road between here and there. No idea when it will reopen so we'll need to investigate tomorrow. The campground we are booked at is underwater so they are trying to move us to another campground at the same rate. The white water rafting company has no phone, but left a message on my cellphone that the river isn't really swollen there
The campground just up the road is underwater, but the river's aren't swollen? Not sure if I feel safe at this point. I need to actually talk to them tomorrow.
The kids are starting school tomorrow as scheduled. Hopefully everyone can get there as I know many people are stranded in their homes as roads are washed out in both directions. Lots of coworkers couldn't make it in the morning.
One of the women that work for my mother lost their house and car. I've heard of many other people that have lost their homes as well and many don't have flood insurance.
Holy Toledo! I did see VT on the news this morning. Glad that your kids were able to start school on time.
I saw that aerial photo of Route 4 you posted.....
CRAZY! I wonder how that effected Maria's trip to Canada this weekend???
You will definitely have to find some new ways to get around for probably the next year while everything gets repaired. We've had that situation around here twice since we've lived here. We've had "record" floods twice (I think it was 2007 and 2008... can't remember). Just glad you are SAFE!!
I'm the same way. When I went on the first two shopping trips, I was fine. Bought almost all healthy stuff. Then when I went to WalMart with my housemate and other friend, there was nothing that I needed so I ended up buying a 21 pack of those soft frosted sugar cookies. And today after class I became that girl who sat in front of the TV watching Law and Order while eating cookies. Never mind that I've never before watched that show in my life.
(Also, apparently people who watch TV during that time need dates, because there were a lot of ads for match.com and eharmony.
) However, I'm thinking I can also blame that on PMS, but I'm back on plan tomorrow. Might just throw the cookies out.
THROW THEM OUT!! You'll feel better and be proud of yourself.
iTunes never seems to have actual parks music, only movie soundtracks. If there's any music you want, PM me your e-mail and I'll send it to you.
Do you have any of the Main Street music? I had DD find the portion of Main Street music I like on you-tube and she was able to load it on her phone as a ringtone... but I'd love to have a brief recording of it on the computer.
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As I said above, today was on plan until around 4:30. But I'm starting over tomorrow. I can't remember if I said this before, but one of my housemates is borderline diabetic, so she is also watching what she eats, and we are going to be gym buddies a few times a week-I think we're going Wednesday morning.
First day of class was pretty chill. I got a lot of my pile of paperwork diminished at work, so that was good. For my psych class (tomorrow), I've been checking & checking the book list-nothing. So I was really hoping we wouldn't have one. But today the professor sent the syllabus and sure enough, it has a required textbook.
And last night one of my friends was telling me about his horrible experience with this professor, so I'm not looking forward to this. But I can't drop it because a)I have nothing to put in its place and b)I won't be a full time student. So wish me luck!
Will you have time to order the book online somewhere, or do you need it immediately?
Nice that you will have a gym buddy! Just the past few weeks that DD and I have been "gym buddies" has been really helpful!
Thanks pamela. It was really fun. We got there at 12:30 and stayed til closing at 10. Ds wanted to do the corkscrew and the new Untamed, but never got up the nerve. But went on that horrible skateboard thing about 5 times. Alone. I'd puke. ugh.
Sorry about the tom. It definitely changes as we get older. I know I won't be sad when menopause hits for real.
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wish I had a chance to get my kids there this summer to try Untamed. I could probably have talked myself into riding it eventually.
Hello to everyone else. I'm off to the cape. We're going to take the ferry to Martha's vineyard and bike over there today, and we're staying in falmouth so tomorrow we'll bike the paths around falmouth. A friend told us of a great restaurant called the Nimrod where there's a cannon hole where a cannon was shot from a ship during the war of 1812, so we're going to go there one night.
Have a great rest of the week everyone!!
Enjoy the rest of vacation!!
guys, i'm sorry, i've really been slacking on this thread lately. shame on me!
Blame it on Irene!!
pamela - ah, good ole aunt flo. she really is a witch, isn't she?? i'm a total salt person too so i feel your pain. it's the worst when you're watching your weight because that salt just makes your weight go up up up! but nice work on the spinach salad. at least you got some nutrition in you!! feel better with the cramps. my first tri was SO crampy i felt like a teenager again too. and i couldn't take advil!
Maybe that is why my hand has been in the peanut jar lately??
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i've been really bad at keeping up with posting the last few days - sorry again! we have a huge labor day celebration weekend here in our neighborhood that i'm really looking forward to and then the following weekend we leave for disney!
had a great OB appt today and everything's looking great. almost 28 weeks already! doc gave me the name of someone to help with the sciatica and told me to take it easy as much as possible and rest alot. so....i'm gonna lay on the couch for a while now
So glad things are good with the "bun in the oven". I have always suffered with a bit of sciatica off and on, so I understand how it feels. Does heat or massage help?? I find if my weight fluctuates (up or down) rapidly, the sciatica really kicks in. I'm sure that the pregnancy weight isn't helping.
Hey everyone!
I've made a few phone calls today and am taking a break from cleaning out our pantry. They told us they will take our non pershables. Whatever we don't eat out of the freezers these next few days I'm going to just give to friends or worse case scenario throw stuff away.
Alan just ran to Wal-Mart with his buddy. The buddy is going to help him do some painting. Alan is also going to call the water company down in FL and get that squared away. I'm taking my first break of the day. Then I'm going to start packing up more little stuff.
Movers will be here the 8th to pack us up. The 9th they are loading the truck. We are leaving on the 11th and hoping to be there the 12th. This is going to be interesting: traveling with 2 cats and a dog.
Alan had U-Haul put a hitch on my Juke and we're going to pull a small u-haul trailer. I have a lot of stuff that is irreplacable if it comes up missing (i.e. Josh's flag off his coffin). So I'm spending the extra money to have a piece of mind during this move.
I had to call DVC and change our 2 nights in Oct to 2 nights in Sept. I had wanted to see if we could stay at Villas of Wilderness Lodge because we haven't been there yet. When she told me they had availability I was excited!
. Our first two nights in FL we'll be on Disney property!!
We'll get to FL the 12th, the movers will be there the 14th, then Alan is flying back to Dallas on the 17th to get my convertible & our flatbed wrecker. Then our Disney trip is the 21st!!! I'm going to do a little unpacking while he's gone. Then we may just wait and finish up after our Disney trip. Just depends on how fast we can get things unpacked and organized the way we want them.
Craziness!
QOTD, Wednesday, August 31st
Ok, one more tough question. We all make excuses--excuses for why we don't eat right, why we don't exercise, etc. One thing I have had to learn is the difference between an actual reason for not doing something (ex: skipping a run because of an injury) and making an excuse to avoid doing something.
Having said all that, what common excuses do you use to avoid getting healthy? Can you think of a positive way to deal with it so that next time you want to skip a workout or eat poorly you are better prepared?
I don't usually "plan" to miss a workout.... but the day gets away from me. I am MUCH better off it I either do it first thing in the morning, or it is on my SCHEDULE for the end of the day (usually when I am at the Y with DD).
As for eating poorly.... again, it usually comes down to a lack of PLANNING. For example, this past weekend..... I knew I would eat some junk at the BBQ and that was okay with that.... but I should have PLANNED to bring a veggie burger and skip the HUGE, calorie-filled, beef patty that I ended up eating. It should have been ONE or the OTHER (dessert OR burger), not both.... but I failed to PLAN properly. Honestly, I did give some thought to bringing a veggie burger, but in the end I kind of forgot about it....my bad.
I need to PREPARE and PLAN better for situations like that.
Good Morning. It looks like another dry day here. Hopefully the rivers drop a bit before the thuder storms start tomorrow. The kids had a good first day of school yesterday, but lots of homework for all of us last night. And so it begins. I'm grateful that they were able to start on time. Many schools are delayed by at least a week which means they've already burned through their snow days and will now have to figure out when to make up days. Not a good way to start the year. Some schools are still flooded or have extensive damage.
I see on the news that there are a few northern NH schools closed as well. Glad it didn't effect us like that.
morning all! anyone else being eaten alive by mosquitoes? all the rain we've had is making them come out in droves! my poor son has two huge ones on his face that look like volcanoes.
we have guests coming for the weekend so today begins the
clean-and-purge-so-much-so-your-friends-think-you-keep-a-clean-house-all-the-time clean-up. should be fun.
i have so much junk laying around that i need to just get rid of. i'm tired just thinking about it.
have a great day everyone!!
I used to do that (bolded part), but honestly.... I think I've finally given up! I used to make myself INSANE when I had company..... literally cleaning for days and days.... emptying drawers and closets, etc. Now.... a quick dusting, run the vacuume around, clean the bathrooms, wash the floors, and call it good! Don't wear yourself out on this!
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Good Wednesday morning friends! DS was off to his "last first-day" of middle school this morning! Next year he starts HS! How did I get so old??
DD starts tomorrow (cause she an upper classman
). She and I are off to enjoy our last day of summer together. Dropping off a CARLOAD at the Goodwill, maybe poking around a bit, some lunch together and then home at the end of the day to get DS off the bus.
I told DD I'd be ready to go at 9 am and it is now 9:04 and I'm not even dressed yet! TTYL....................P