Sorry to resurrect a zombie post, but I know some people who posted here are probably curious about what happened!
I neglected to mention at the time of posting that I wasn't aware of my child's gender. We chose not to find out, but I just had a feeling he was a boy. I was right!
When our son was born, we still didn't have a plan set forth entirely. It was a tumultuous and crazy birth (he was born about 2 hours after I arrived a the hospital... fast, natural (read: PAINFUL) and furious. After he arrived, we were so in awe of him. He was (and is) beautiful. We were blessed that day in June!
Anyway, after he was born and my husband was holding him, he told me he really felt he wanted our son to have his name. And so he is legally "Hank" Harrison. However, since the moment he arrived, we have made it clear he is called Harrison. My ILs have completely abided (given there are 4 living "Hank's", it's easier for them, too!) and we were able to design a birth announcement that both displays his full given name as well as makes it obvious what we call him.
8 months after his birth, we rarely think about his name complications. He is simply Harrison, and simply wonderful. He is a blond haired blue eyed charmer, a surprise to both of us since dad is a jet-black haired Italian boy. Harrison suits him so very well. He is the easiest and calmest baby and has already been to Disney at 6 months old-- he was in awe of the snowflakes at
MVMCP.
(and more recently, on Valentine's day at 8 months old...)
I don't know if there's a right or wrong answer to what ended up happening, but I will say... I took a photograph of DS, DH, DFIL and DGFIL, all named "Hank," shortly after Harrison's birth. They were born between 1919 and 2012, and that "Four Generations" picture was pretty moving. I feel like we did the right thing, and DH and I agree that if Harrison disagrees in the future, we'll be happy to help him change his name.