I will get back to finishing my
plan updates soon, but
some random things related to our trip that have been going on first...
I've really been trying to prepare Owen. We've been watching lots of Disney movies, You-tube videos of rides, talking about everything we are going to do, etc.
I want this trip to be completely Magical for him, so I figure the more ready he is, the better. He tends to get very nervous and apprehensive around things he isn't familiar with, so any type of surprise is probably NOT going to be Magical, lol! I think he will have more fun if he feels like he knows what he's getting into.
One thing that has come out of all this...
he REALLY doesn't want to see any fireworks. He is very adamant about this. DH first described it to him, and when he seemed nervous, I told him that I would take him back to the hotel if it was
too scary. He immediately said he wanted to go back to the hotel! So I showed him some videos of Wishes and Illuminations, thinking maybe he just didn't understand it without seeing it. He was
not amused, and again asked to go back to the hotel.
So, I think we need to admit at this point that the firework shows are just not going to be his thing on this trip. It should come as no surprise, DD was about his age when we took her to her first 4th of July Fireworks and she sobbed with her head buried in my chest the whole time.
DH probably cares more about seeing them than I do, so I figure most nights I'll go back to the hotel with Owen while he stays with Lily for the show. If Owen changes his mind at some point, fine, but we're not going to push it for sure. In a way, I'm kind of relieved, because I was worried about having him out so late every night, I don't want him to be too grumpy to have fun the next day. This way he can get to bed at a more normal hour.
Let's see, other stuff... Well,
we still have NO MICKEY MAIL!!! 29 days out and still nothing. I wouldn't be so worried if I had more confidence in our local post office. I can't count how many times our mail has ended up in someone else's box (and vise-versa), packages have been extremely late, or hold-mail has simply been lost forever. They are really quite unreliable. Wondering when I should call Disney to check on it.
I have done some fun preparation stuff though! I made
countdown calendars for the kids once we hit the 1-month mark.
They are adding a sticker every day until we leave.
Owen was so cute - he asked after doing the first sticker if we were going to Disney World, Lily and I explained that once he got all the yellow boxes on his calendar filled with stickers, that we would go. So of course he immediately asked if he could have "lots and lots of stickers". He must have thought it was silly for us to be waiting on such a simple task if that's all it took to be able to go
I also finished putting together my
Plan Book. It is much smaller this time. Just our main spreadsheet for the cover, park hours for the week, Touring Plans for each day, a map of each park (cut and pasted from the park brochures so that it fits on 2 pages), and a list of what attractions are open during EMH.
I really tried to cut down on how much stuff I put in there, since we've now been several times, I figure we aren't as dependent on it. Plus we have access to so much info on our phones now, so the paper isn't as necessary.
Then we made
Mousekeeping envelopes. We've never done that before. In fact, DH has always insisted on just leaving a big tip on the last day. I think I finally convinced him that we shouldn't do it that way. It was one of those weird things where
he had grown up always seeing his parents do it that way, so clearly that's THE WAY it's supposed to be done, lol!
Now I just have to come up with a way to get small bills to put in them. We do all of our banking over the internet, so we don't have a local branch that we can go into to get bills changed out. I'm wondering if maybe the Customer Service Desk at the grocery store would do it??? Of course, I don't even have an ATM card, so I don't even have large bills at the moment!
Other little things, I bought some
name tags that we are going to use for Owen. I'll put them on his back so he doesn't try to take it off, and so it doesn't look tacky in pictures. (The daycare at our gym does this and it works great!) They will have his name, our names, and our cell-phone numbers. With DD, even at 2 years old, this is something I NEVER would have felt the need to do. She was always afraid to get more than 3 feet away from us.
But Owen is a different matter. When he gets excited about something, he is gone in a flash! And being so small and agile, he can easily work his way through a crowd much faster than we can chase him. I doubt we'll end up using a stroller much because he refuses to sit in it, so there will be a lot of
opportunities for him to escape. I hope to goodness that we never have to rely on these name tags, but I'll feel better knowing they are there. I'm not one to be at all worried about "privacy", so I really don't care if the whole "world" knows his name and our cell #s. (Though, just to avoid tempting fate, I did blur out our numbers in the picture
)
Lastly, I've just been obsessing, no,
STRESSING over every detail of our touring plans and ADRs!!! I've made a few minor tweaks. Still trying to come up with a good plan for breakfast each day, and still feeling frustrated that it's this hard.
Are we really the only ones staying at YC/BC/BW that want a nice selection of hot breakfast items at 7am???? We must be, because everyone else seems to have solutions that just won't work for us. But I feel a little better about our plan after working on it some more.
I also went ahead and switched our
50's PT lunch to
Mama Melrose. I was still having trouble getting excited about it - it's definitely not the kind of food we typically eat, and while the theming looked kind of cool, it wasn't totally our thing either. We never even turn the TV on at home, it's just not something that interests us at all. And we really enjoyed MM last time, so it seemed a shame not to do it again.
Lily was disappointed to find out that the show she was looking forward to at DHS (
Disney Channel Rocks) is being cancelled before we go.
I guess most people didn't care for it, but I wish they had kept it just a few weeks longer! Unless there is something we really want to do once we are there, we'll probably just come back early that day and have more time to swim and nap instead.
That's another thing I've been stressing about -
whether our breaks are long enough! I know from experience that if Owen doesn't get his full nap, and wake up on his own (after 2-3 hours usually), he is a major GRUMP for the rest of the evening! I guess I just need to accept that if necessary, we will (or at least Owen and I will) have to skip the
before-dinner rides. I think we could definitely make it in time for our dinner ADR with no problem.
So, after some changes, here is our up-to-date spreadsheet:
One more thing I had been stressing about... my parents. I mentioned before that they live in southern Florida, about 4 hours from Orlando. I know it sounds mean, but we never invite them when we go for our "big trips", though we've done several mini-trips with them. But I always start worrying as it gets close that they are going to try to crash our vacation, or at least be really mad about it. (Trust me, if you knew them, you would understand why having them there would definitely spoil the Magic. Especially my mom.)
For the past two trips, I had made another trip down to Florida to see them shortly after Disney, to make it less likely that they would feel the need to show up uninvited to our vacation.
This time, I was really considering just not telling them about it at all. At least until after it was over. But this was causing a lot of anxiety. I'm sure I'll be posting Facebook updates while we are there, and while I could hide those posts from them,
they were surely going to wonder after a few days when they had seen NOTHING from me! Besides, I'm just not a dishonest person, and the whole idea wasn't sitting well with me.
So, I decided that I had the right idea the first two times, and we are now booked for a short trip to see them at the beginning of May. About 2 weeks after we get back. Now I don't have to keep the Disney Secret anymore, and while they will still be a little miffed that we are 4 hours away for a week and they don't get to see us, it will be bearable because a visit is just around the corner.
Well I think that's it for now, all caught up!
IF ONLY THAT DANG MICKEY MAIL WOULD COME!!!!!