interesting, and not judging but just genuinely curios, why dont you feel like its your place? For example say in a local election, would you and your husband hare the same view of the candidates? Would the candidate your husband votes for be your choice? What about in a referendum, say like removing something from the constitution, would you and your husband share the same viewpoint?
Honestly just really curious, as this is something I havent heard, as most women are fiercely proud of and fiercely defend their right to a vote