I love you just the way you are? Wellll at least that's what Billy Joel said
.Haha! & I'm thinking of Meatloaf: I'd Do Anything For Love (But I Won't Do That).I love you just the way you are? Wellll at least that's what Billy Joel said
That’s a really hard call. Come January we’ll have been together 30 years. It would have to be something despicable that I wouldn’t forgive anyone for. I want to say abuse or irrevocably hurting one of our kids but neither is in his character and if either were to happen we’d be setting up appointments for MRIs, brain scans etc. ASAP.
Maybe way back in the beginning that *might* have been a dealbreaker but now? I figure he must have a damn good reason. He’s his own person and has the right to pick and choose his relationships. We do not speak to his father. If that relationship were to be suddenly repaired I don’t think I could find it in myself to be all buddy buddy with him. He hurt my kid and he hurt my DH, those get you blacklisted in my book. My DH would not expect me to reconcile because he did.
I'm glad too & hope they got to the reason.
My husband is Christian and I am Athiest so no worries there for us but I get that a lot of relationships are closely tied to a common faith.
In our younger days cheating would have definitely been a dealbreaker but three decades in I can’t say that would happen. I’d be more likely to walk over an emotional affair than a physical one. At the same time I can hold a grudge like nobody’s business so it would take a whole hell of a lot for me to forgive. *Knock wood* let’s hope I’m never put into the position to find out.
I’d have to kick my kids to the curb too, lol.
Maybe because we aren’t religious this one is hard for me to wrap my head around. I might question a sudden change but as long as he wasn’t trying to convert me or insist on my practicing what he does he’s his own man and free to do as he chooses.
Depends on his reasons. Is this a one time thing or is he a serial killer? Kidding...
