(Here we go, a wedding thread
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DD25 has just become engaged
and as they want to marry in late May or early June 2019, we are in Uber-planning mode. How do people decide where to register, and for what? Do people even DO registries these days? DD and her fiancé have had an apartment together for two years, so while they have the basic stuff, a lot of this is mismatched, yard-sale finds. When I was "a girl" registries were for china patterns, crystal patterns, silver patterns, but I am pretty sure it's not done that way anymore.
Is it reasonable for her to register at several places? I know they aren't looking for anything fancy, necessarily, but they'd like dinner plates that match (and I'm talking Corelle, not Noritake). Is it silly to register for low-priced things like vegetable peelers and can openers (she loves the Oxo Good Grips)? Is it OK to register for more pricier items (she'd love a stand mixer or a Cuisinart, but both are out of their normal budget). I've also heard of some brides setting up a honeymoon account. How do people feel about that- is it tacky to 'ask' for money? Would you rather put money into a honeymoon account or just send a check? Anyone have any experience with this? Quite a few of our relatives live out of state and might not attend showers or even the wedding... can't decide if registering is 'helpful' or if people would prefer to just send money!