bernina
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 25, 2014
My aunt passed away last night. Shes been battling lung cancer and heart issues for several years. The cancer had spread and shes been in hospice care since March.
My dad is a piece of work. This is one of his sisters. He called my maternal grandfather... so I woke not only to a few messages about my aunt, but also one from my grandpa that was basically like, your dad called, w t f, we're not friends and I have no interest of being a source of info on you for him like he wants. So I told him about aunt. My grandparents were pretty close with this aunt and her family before, so he called my dad back... cause ya know, a decent person thing would probably be to notify him in this situation. But no, my dad was trying to use it as a way to get to me. Shameful.
ETA my grandpa doesnt cuss much in front of me, I was more trying to paraphrase the feeling behind his text
I’m very sorry for the loss of your Aunt and also for the drama your Dad so clearly wants to stir up. Hugs to you.