I have a solo backpacking tent (about 3 lbs) that's marketed as ideal for motorcycle or bicycle touring. That came mostly with Y stakes but apparently with some bend stakes meant for any additional guy lines to help in high winds. I never had to use the guy lines though.
I have a really nice Marmot car camping tent. It says it's 4 person, but it's got more area than most Coleman 8 person tents. It has aluminum alloy poles and aluminum alloy hex hook stakes. It also has a pole repair piece. I believe it's supposed to be held with something like duct tape if one of the aluminum rods bends. But the hook stakes are generally pretty strong, although I've seen pictures of abused ones. This isn't my photo, but they're identical to what came with my tent:
And the best part is that it comes in a bag that has a more room than needed. I absolutely hate tents that don't go back in the carrying case without stomping on them until they compress enough to jam back in.