I think all the advice you have been given is awesome. I almost don't want to post behind LisaF, her story is just so touching.
LisaF - I don't mean to thread jack but I hope you have the right meds and you are on the road to losing the weight you want. It has to be so frustrating to spend 3 years working at it and not seeing the results you know you should.
Okay, back to you Sandy. As the other posters have commented, it certain it possible to lose 100 pounds. I know it sounds daunting. It was so overwhelming for me that I almost didn't even get started. But I am living proof that it is possible! I have some pics on WISH if you do a search under my name or look for a post entitled "putting a face with the name" or something like that if you want to see my before and during photos. I almost can't believe I'm at the 100 pound mark a year after I started here at WISH but I am just 6.5 pounds from that wonderful number. I have gone from a size 26 jeans to a size 12 and even one pair of size 10 stretch jeans. I'm still a work in progress, but it's almost unreal for me to be where I am today. I can say without a doubt that but ISH has been so instrumental to my success. The people on this board will love you, encourage you, support you and give you a kick in the booty when you need it! This is one of the best places ever to get the encouragement you need to succeed.
As others have said, set smaller goals for yourself. I do the 10% weight loss thing myself and it's been fun tracking my progress. I started with then current weight, 282.5 pounds and took 10% off it which was 28 pounds. When I reached 254.5 I took the next 10% off which was 25 pounds and I just keep going. I'll reach my next 10% weight loss goal of 187 pounds in just 2 more pounds. Then I'll start my next one. The minigoals really help.
I have also learned to take this journey one day at a time. I don't focus on the big picture. It's too overwhelming to do that. If someone would have told me I'd spend 400+cheat free days when I started I wouldn't have believed them but I have. The secret: taking it one day at a time and not allowing myself to think about the challenges I'll face the next day.
Another thing that has helped me is not to think of the things I'm not allowing myself to eat (notice I didn't say foods I can't have, because of course I could have them if I really wanted them) but when I say I'm not allowing myself to eat certain foods, I'm in control and I like to feel that way. I try to focus on the delicious foods I can have and with low carbing there are lots of yummy foods I can enjoy so I can honestly say I've never felt deprived eating this way.
Exercise is so important as was mentioned by others. I love working out with the Firm (cardio and strength training) and now Cathe F.'s workouts too. I hardly ever take a rest day because I found a form of exercise that I truly enjoy doing. That's key.
Find an eating program that's right for you. That may seem simple but took me years of false starts and trying to do things other people's way before I found the low carb lifestyle and it works for me. I can definitely eat this way for the rest of my life.
Finally, come here often! Start a journal, get a buddy, join a challenge or two. Post, post, post!
We are all hear to support you and before you know it, it will be January 10, 2006 and we'll all be celebrating your one year anniversary on WISH and your 100 pound weight loss! It can happen. You can do it! I know you can!!!