Well I promised I'd come back, and here I am! Just back from a 6 night celebrity equinox to KW, Cayman and Cozumel. This was comparable to a 7 night western on Fantasy, except I was in a suite, had a full drink package, $600 in OBC and tips included, although we tipped several people above and beyond that. The Fantasy cruise in a suite would have been much more.
Hate to say it here, but for an adults only trip, celebrity wins. I know, I used to tell myself Disney was nice enough for adults only, but several reasons made this the winner.
1) the pool was broken into two sections, one from 2-3 feet deep and one from 3-5 feet deep. Together they were the size of the kids pool and the family pool. There were some kids but I probably didn't see more than 20 the whole trip. On one port day and the first couple of hours of the last sea day we had plenty of room to float, hang out, etc. without anyone at our elbow. They also have a solarium pool for 16 and up, but on sea days that was pretty crowded. There is a retreat deck for suite guests but this one has no pool so we weren't there much. The other ship we have booked has one in the suite guest area so I am eager to try it out.
2) activities--the ship did not just shut down after the last show (even though we only went to one of the shows and we usually skip "entertainers" in the theatre, especially magic and ventriloquism, yuk). There was a party every night at 10--a silent disco, an ABBA themed night, a Queen themed night, a full moon party on the pool deck, etc. There was also a casino but we probably spent 20 minutes in there total, and it was smoke-free, and you didn't have to walk through it at all (I see that a lot--"I don't want to walk my kids through a smoky casino"). Usually there was more music in the sky lounge at 11, but hey I just turned 59 and I have my limits. Also, if I wanted I could have done general knowledge/pub trivia 3 x a day plus a themed one once a day (which I did win 3x--TV themes, oldies but goodies, and Broadway musicals). there were talks, and presentations, and art auctions ( didn't do that either). There was also a library on my deck. Now if you look, the books are all kind of older, but I saw a surprising number of folks reading there own books in there. There was also a card room that usually had at least one table playing games--the max I saw was 5 groups playing games or cards! And I don't mean just older people.
3) the food! WAY better than Disney. We have done the Dream 3x plus the other three once each. Of course the Dream menus are the same each time. We ate in the suite restaurant and had the same, highly attentive wait team each night. One night we ate in a specialty restaurant that was like Palo and it was great--they flambeed my lobster at the table. Cost was comparable to Palo. We hit the buffett twice and got room service twice and there was no lapse of quality and nothing was cold.
4. They didn't mention the survey until the last meal of the last day!!! No nagging.
5. Embarkation was so easy. No cattle call waiting for numbers, and tripping over people with higher numbers who are camping out by the embarkation spot. It was also by far the easiest debarkation I have ever had.
The only place I would say Disney wins for an adult is merchandise. Both cruises have the same high end places for watches, jewelry, etc. Celebrity adds booze and cigars, but we don't buy those anyway. There was very little "celebrity" branded merchandise. I would loved a T shirt or a beach towel, but the only t shirts that just said "celebrity cruise line" were size small. They had a model ship, pens, mugs, etc. But considering DCL has two or three ships devoted to branded merch it was a weird adjustment.
So sure, I couldn't wait in line to hug Mickey and there was no diaper race. But unless we take our grandsons on a cruise someday (and IMHO they are too little now at 6,3 and 2 months) I will be spending my money on Celebrity. I'm sure someone will jump on and say I missed the Disney magic (who isn't these days, with the parks a hot mess) but I had the best cruise ever, at a great value.