Circle, I have to admit that boards like this generate so many threads where people look for money, that your OP coupled with your post count led me to look at your past posts. What I saw is that the person you are referring to in this thread is likely your daughter. I'm so very sorry that your daughter has had to deal with so much at such a young age.
If you want people's advice, please don't hesitate to give the full story, though. I would imagine that her treatments have been a financial drain, and it's really sweet of her friends to want to take her on a nice vacation. I do still think that they should look into something they can afford, or at least do some kind of event to raise money instead of just asking people for it. You could also set up a vacation registry for her, and as her parent, I think it would be okay for you to use word of mouth to let to family members know that instead of more stuffed animals or whatnot, she is saving up for a trip and would appreciate money going into a vacation registry instead.
If you want people's advice, please don't hesitate to give the full story, though. I would imagine that her treatments have been a financial drain, and it's really sweet of her friends to want to take her on a nice vacation. I do still think that they should look into something they can afford, or at least do some kind of event to raise money instead of just asking people for it. You could also set up a vacation registry for her, and as her parent, I think it would be okay for you to use word of mouth to let to family members know that instead of more stuffed animals or whatnot, she is saving up for a trip and would appreciate money going into a vacation registry instead.