I am really torn, and I need some advice from you lovely ladies. To be totally honest, my wedding sucked. The end result was great because I am married to my wonderful, loving husband, but we were still in school and poor as dirt. My pictures were horrible, and just everything wasn't the magical wedding I had always dreamed of. I originally wanted a VR at WDW, but that is WAY out of our budget because after I get done with it will be around $20,000 for an ESCAPE wedding!!! So, I am thinking about a DCL VR because DH and I really fell in love with DCL after our cruise in 2007. The problem is this, I don't think I really want anyone else except me and DH. Don't get me wrong, I love my family so much, but my parents don't really have the money to fork out for a cruise and we really don't have the budget to pay for them. So I'm thinking, if they can't go, I don't want any one else to go. Does that sound totally selfish?? What would you guys do??