eliza61
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jun 2, 2003
So, as normal co workers this morning were all chatting about what they did over the holiday weekend. One co worker asked us if this scenario would be a problem, so I'm posting it to you guys.
Gal and her hubby, happily married have 2 little girls.
No huge financial issues, just the normal money is tight.
Well gal's sister invites them to the Jersey shore for the long weekend, nothing big and gal declines. Nothing major just money is tight, lots of spending over the summer, couple of school related items, yada yada yada
Anyway, they chat some more, hang up and a few days later gal gets 300 bucks in a card with a note saying love ya, see ya soon. Gal never asked for money, totally surprised, thinks nothing of it.
Hubby got offended. felt that it implied he couldn't take care of the family??
I told her my kids college text book bill this term is about 750 bucks, anyone in my family who wanted to help with that would be welcome with a lot of thankyou,thankyou thankyou and accompanied by serious hugging.
Would Ms. Manners be appalled?
Gal and her hubby, happily married have 2 little girls.
No huge financial issues, just the normal money is tight.
Well gal's sister invites them to the Jersey shore for the long weekend, nothing big and gal declines. Nothing major just money is tight, lots of spending over the summer, couple of school related items, yada yada yada
Anyway, they chat some more, hang up and a few days later gal gets 300 bucks in a card with a note saying love ya, see ya soon. Gal never asked for money, totally surprised, thinks nothing of it.
Hubby got offended. felt that it implied he couldn't take care of the family??
I told her my kids college text book bill this term is about 750 bucks, anyone in my family who wanted to help with that would be welcome with a lot of thankyou,thankyou thankyou and accompanied by serious hugging.
Would Ms. Manners be appalled?