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How many employers ask this? Really?
Not-a-One will ask if you stayed on campus
I am sure Happy Snowman just is confused.
How many employers ask this? Really?
Your dd is going fine and on a great path to a great future.
Now, if she as like my dd, doing DE and going to the local CC, then transferring to a 4 year University, she'd be screwed according to some
Yup, because no one successful has ever gone to a community college. After all, you have never heard of Tom Hanks, Ross Perot and George Lucas.
Oh, and to tie in with Disney, Al Weiss and Walt Disney.
Not-a-One will ask if you stayed on campus
I am sure Happy Snowman just is confused.
A lot of really sensitive people here!
Obviously there are people with different opinions about what is best. Good grief!
That's a lot of bravado considering that your older son dropped out after a semester and your twins go to a mid-tier Midwest liberal arts school of absolutely no distinction. Before you judge people and make disparaging comments based on their child's choices, I'd suggest you think about how your children's lack of accomplishments reflect on you according to your own standards. Or to put it simply:
You're pointing your fingers at other, and 3 fingers are pointing back at you.
How do you know all this? The pp and I have disagreed many times about many things but this is a bit personal. And not really fair to her kids. They can be quite successful with no college or with a degree from a "mid level" school. Imo, insinuating otherwise is stooping to her level.
One point I did want to also make is that I do think it is important to keep the end point in mind....getting a degree. Earning that degree will, hopefully, help them begin a long and successful (both monetarily and intrinsically) career.
If a kid comes out of college buried in debt to start it is very hard to start off their adult life on a strong financial footing.
Unfortunately, we know SO many families who insisted their was no other way to have a successful college career without living away. Well their kids have now graduated and moved BACK home because they can't afford to live on their own due to their loans.
People really need to take all this into consideration. There is a big difference in taking out a$20,000 loan versus winding up with $100,000 plus in debt when they graduate.
I literally just had a conversation with a friend who also has a DD graduating this year. She was so excited to tell me her dd received a scholarship to a private college in the next state. Her scholarship was for $6000 a year...but the school is $53,000 a year. She then tells me she will just have to do loans since nothing was saved. That is $180,000 in loans this kid might have...and she doesn't even have an idea of a major yet.
If they had a lot of money saved and could afford it, I say go for it if they want. But they don't and I actually feel bad for this kid. Not so sure that at 17 she really understands...since her mother doesn't seem to.
I was responding to a sock puppet for a previously banned user. She was also banned from another board I used to post on, and has a new sock puppet there too. I remember her personal details because she's been aggressively sharing them for years. I think she's playing dumb now to avoid getting banned again, but it's her.How do you know all this? The pp and I have disagreed many times about many things but this is a bit personal. And not really fair to her kids. They can be quite successful with no college or with a degree from a "mid level" school. Imo, insinuating otherwise is stooping to her level.
I was responding to a sock puppet for a previously banned user. She was also banned from another board I used to post on, and has a new sock puppet there too. I remember her personal details because she's been aggressively sharing them for years. I think she's playing dumb now to avoid getting banned again, but it's her.
I just applied for a job, where they gave me an application and asked for all schools attended and units earned. It was kind of awful, because I did concurrent enrollment at the local CC in high school. And I went to a local school for summer school 4 times so that I could come home for the summer. I also had both quarter and semester units. Meanwhile they only wanted a 10 year work history. I did get all of the info together, but I was kind of grumbling to myself that they should be more interest in my work history that's 12-13 years ago instead of some classes I took almost 20 years ago.If you go to CC then transfer your degree does not have an asterisk. Your degree will say from XYZ University. Most people list on their resume the school where they graduated and their degree. Unless you told them there is no way a potential employer would know, or care for that matter, that you went to another school before the one that gave you the diploma. All the employer cares about is the degree and which school is came from.
I've interviewed a number of recent grads for jobs here and we've never asked if the person lived on campus or at home with mom and dad. Maybe we should add that to the interview questions since it seems to be so important.
Most scholarships are for those in the 4.0 and higher....would not count on it
I was slightly exaggerating
OP's DD has almost a 3.2-to me that isn't in the leagues of top kids all applying for scholarships
My brilliant nephew attended a High School for gifted kids 10-12th grade-all started with 4.0-all got into Ivy Leagues & Top Tier Universities, and even he only got a little scholarship $$ (he was one of the top 5 grads and had 35 out of 36 on his ACT)...now at Carnegie Mellon studying computer robotics and artificial Intelligence
Has she taken the ACT or SAT? This should be done THIS SPRING!!
I just applied for a job, where they gave me an application and asked for all schools attended and units earned. It was kind of awful, because I did concurrent enrollment at the local CC in high school. And I went to a local school for summer school 4 times so that I could come home for the summer. I also had both quarter and semester units. Meanwhile they only wanted a 10 year work history. I did get all of the info together, but I was kind of grumbling to myself that they should be more interest in my work history that's 12-13 years ago instead of some classes I took almost 20 years ago.
Edited to add:
And I didn't even get an interview out of that application. I supposed I could be happy that I at least have everything collected now, but I can't imagine I'm ever going to be asked for all of that again.
Yes, not all community colleges are equal and not all states have made it easy for students to transfer to a four year institution. But I have worked at community colleges for years and know many students who have planned out their education and transferred with no issues and no extra time.
And community colleges do not equal a lesser education as some have inferred on here (and again, I will admit, it varies with institutions). In fact, the community college I where I work often has students referred to us for their math courses, not because they are easier but because the class size is smaller, allows for more interaction with the professor, has supplemental instruction and free tutoring.
It really depends on the school. Our CC is excellent at what it does, serving mostly kids who wouldn't otherwise go on to higher education and displaced blue collar workers training for a career change, but I wouldn't consider it a good alternative for a bright kid capable of going directly to a four-year university. The courses simply aren't on the same level (and if they were, that would undermine the school's success with less academically talented groups) and the financial aid issues others have raised are real. There is no merit aid for transfers at many schools, and even with two years at the CC it can take more than two to finish a four-year degree after transfer if the university imposes requirements the CC doesn't or if the pre-req structure limits the usefulness of the first semester post-transfer. I ran into both of these situations myself - I needed a fine arts and a foreign language course for my BA that my CC didn't require for an AA so I am stuck paying upper-division tuition rates for two freshman-level courses, and all of the coursework in my major and related minor share a common pre-req that can't be transferred in. I guess that dovetailed okay because having the additional gen-ed requirements still to complete kept my first semester from being a choice between making the commute just for one class vs taking classes I didn't need, but either way it means I'm going to need five semesters, not four, to finish.
I think community colleges fill a real need, but that the promotion of the CC path as a universal solution for every family concerned about paying for college is a bit short sighted and dismissive of some important aspects of making a good college choice.