Hi,
I have been twice (once on the Magic and the Wonder), and my husband and I don't have kids. We really enjoy the DCL 's ships because the adults have areas seperated from the kids. We love going to Disney, but the cruise is more enjoyable for us as it's a much more private vacation. Don't get me wrong the kids are still there and you can be with them, but their are so many areas on the ship and island that you don't have to be. For instance, the adults have their own pool and pool area (and unlike the way Disney usually is...they are very strict about not letting even the pre-teens into the area!) The adults have a full-service spa to go to, a night club area with a quiet conversational bar that's open all day, and on the island they have their own private beach and bar area! I will admit that I still think DCL needs to work on improving the adult nightlife, but it's getting there. This year's clubs were hoppin more and open later than the last time I went! <BG> Besides, you can not beat the staterooms on the ship they are big and beautiful and you still get to feel like your surrounded by Disney Magic!
Hope this helps...Mmketeer