2019TripIdeas
Mouseketeer
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- Feb 6, 2018
We're taking our kids on their first WDW (my 4th trip to WDW) visit next Spring and my parents are wanting to come. I feel like this is a terrible idea but the grandparents don't want to hear otherwise.
I feel like it's a bad idea for tons of reasons, but among them the fact that our vacation styles are SO different (we're early risers, my parents stay in bed until 10); we're fine with public transport (we live in a city, its just what we do) whereas they are afraid of even Uber and will want to take car everywhere; my parents don't enjoy when my kids whine or are loud (bound to happen at Disney at least a few times).
The biggest reason though is that my parents just aren't Disney people. Even when they took my brother and I as kids, they made it apparent they hated the experience and tried to spend as little time in the parks as possible. When we went as older teens, they actually didn't come into the parks at all and stayed by the pool at the resort for the week. They recently had a chance to do Disney for a week (had a conference and stayed at Swan or Dolphin?)- they went into the parks once, and only to Epcot because it was the only place they could drink. They stayed for 2 hours.
Their logic is that it's their grandkids first trip, so they should be there for that. Also, we only get to see them a few times a year and Disney is only 4 hours from their home (we live on the opposite side of the country). The only plus I can think of is that they could watch our youngest at the hotel at night if we wanted to stay out later (our kids will be 18m, almost 3 and almost 5 when we go).
I guess I envision just major schedule challenges (we'll be up and doing rope drop, back to hotel in afternoon to nap, when they'll just be getting out for the day around noon).
Anyone have any advice for convincing them they'd be better off skipping this one? I tried the "I'll send lots of pictures and videos!" and "We'll come do a relaxing vacation at your house the following year" but they don't seem convinced. Also, ha, I didn't invite them along to begin with, making this even more awkward!
I feel like it's a bad idea for tons of reasons, but among them the fact that our vacation styles are SO different (we're early risers, my parents stay in bed until 10); we're fine with public transport (we live in a city, its just what we do) whereas they are afraid of even Uber and will want to take car everywhere; my parents don't enjoy when my kids whine or are loud (bound to happen at Disney at least a few times).
The biggest reason though is that my parents just aren't Disney people. Even when they took my brother and I as kids, they made it apparent they hated the experience and tried to spend as little time in the parks as possible. When we went as older teens, they actually didn't come into the parks at all and stayed by the pool at the resort for the week. They recently had a chance to do Disney for a week (had a conference and stayed at Swan or Dolphin?)- they went into the parks once, and only to Epcot because it was the only place they could drink. They stayed for 2 hours.
Their logic is that it's their grandkids first trip, so they should be there for that. Also, we only get to see them a few times a year and Disney is only 4 hours from their home (we live on the opposite side of the country). The only plus I can think of is that they could watch our youngest at the hotel at night if we wanted to stay out later (our kids will be 18m, almost 3 and almost 5 when we go).
I guess I envision just major schedule challenges (we'll be up and doing rope drop, back to hotel in afternoon to nap, when they'll just be getting out for the day around noon).
Anyone have any advice for convincing them they'd be better off skipping this one? I tried the "I'll send lots of pictures and videos!" and "We'll come do a relaxing vacation at your house the following year" but they don't seem convinced. Also, ha, I didn't invite them along to begin with, making this even more awkward!