Our stay at home order was lifted. I was home with only grocery visits every other week from March 13 until this weekend. Saturday I went to a friend's house and went into the pool with my 3 best friends. We didn't touch, just talked from across the pool and entered/exited from the gate (no one inside the home). Sunday I went and saw my mom for the first time, again my brother, sis in law, nephew, me and my 22 year old son entered and exited through her gate and sat outside apart. No touching. My brother did bring take out chicken and sides and we used paper products and all served ourselves.
My 22 year old son came home from college when his internships fell through and has been respectful about not seeing his friends. But he is about to start delivering DoorDash bc it's the only job he can get and I am fine with that. He will wear a mask when needed and wash clothes and hands when he comes home.
Also, I'm a teacher and I'm required to be at the school several times a week going forward to help gather kid's supplies, organize books, check in technology, and close up the building. Even with a mask and gloves the student exchange where every family drives up to get their stuff and drop off materials will expose me to more than very small get togethers with family and friends and social distancing.
I read on local forums and Facebook pages that I'm endangering every elderly citizen and am selfish and foolhardy. So I guess my family/friends expectations are in line but community's certainly are not.