studiojmm
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Mar 10, 2017
So, I only travel with one kid to Disney, but I do corral dozens on field trips as part of my regular job. Plan in lots of transition time. For example, assume that even if you all go to the bathroom right before you leave the hotel, that someone will need to go as soon as you arrive at the park. Luckily, there are bathrooms right after security at all the parks.
Even for my one kid, I like to have her pick just one or two priorities for the day. Doing everything is not always practical so probably shouldn't be the baseline. If you don't get to everything and that's your baseline, then you think you didn't have a good day. If you have a couple of top priorities and get to more than that, then the day was extra special fun! Having a first and second priority is also helpful when rides break down.
I'm a fan of telling the kids the full story of what to expect. "First we will do this, then we will . . . ." If you don't know, tell them that. "After X, I have to figure out Y, so your job is to wait quietly until I get the information I need and I'll tell you as soon as I know" (It probably won't stop the questions, but it's at least respectful and then you can remind them that you told them they had to wait for an answer.) I think fully half of kid group management is setting expectations. The next biggest part is staying calm yourself.
Also, I pretty much never go anywhere that might involve a wait without a book to read. We don't tend to read a lot at WDW unless we need a break, but if you've got 5 kids beginning to lose it and are still more than 10 minutes from the front of a line, you might all be better off if you plop down and read to them. I generally carry a fair bit of stuff into the parks (and on other outings) and rarely regret bringing a book. Once on a train with my brother and his kids (3 & 1, + my 10 yr old), we broke down just a couple minutes from where we were getting off. Out came my copy of Frog and Toad and everyone was just fine. (You could use your phone if you have battery to spare, I just don't like reading from my phone much and kids are trained to ignore that).
Agreed. Adults often take direction much worse than children.
- Don't worry about being too early at MK. The rope of rope drop is actually by the castle and there is a lot to see between there and security.
- AK actually has a TON to see between security and the tree of life, but that could mess with your attraction rope-drop plan. Most people seem to blow past all these animal exhibits, but they are pretty cool and there are photo opportunities in front of the tree.
- We've never rope-dropped Hollywood Studios, but based on infrastructure, I'd bet you don't want to be too early if you aren't racing for a line.
We pretty much want to do it all.
Even for my one kid, I like to have her pick just one or two priorities for the day. Doing everything is not always practical so probably shouldn't be the baseline. If you don't get to everything and that's your baseline, then you think you didn't have a good day. If you have a couple of top priorities and get to more than that, then the day was extra special fun! Having a first and second priority is also helpful when rides break down.
I'm a fan of telling the kids the full story of what to expect. "First we will do this, then we will . . . ." If you don't know, tell them that. "After X, I have to figure out Y, so your job is to wait quietly until I get the information I need and I'll tell you as soon as I know" (It probably won't stop the questions, but it's at least respectful and then you can remind them that you told them they had to wait for an answer.) I think fully half of kid group management is setting expectations. The next biggest part is staying calm yourself.
Also, I pretty much never go anywhere that might involve a wait without a book to read. We don't tend to read a lot at WDW unless we need a break, but if you've got 5 kids beginning to lose it and are still more than 10 minutes from the front of a line, you might all be better off if you plop down and read to them. I generally carry a fair bit of stuff into the parks (and on other outings) and rarely regret bringing a book. Once on a train with my brother and his kids (3 & 1, + my 10 yr old), we broke down just a couple minutes from where we were getting off. Out came my copy of Frog and Toad and everyone was just fine. (You could use your phone if you have battery to spare, I just don't like reading from my phone much and kids are trained to ignore that).
Organizing the adults was the biggest issue.
Agreed. Adults often take direction much worse than children.