AnonyMouse
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Mar 17, 2001
On Saturday, my DD (age 7) asked me, "Mom, what's a Fa**ot?"
So, I asked where in the world she heard that word from.
She responded that a little girl (age 10) called her that on t he playground.
I asked her to tell me EXACTLY what was said.
She said that (girl) said, "Get away, Fa**ot!"
I just told her it was an ugly word that ladies don't say and that she needs to tell someone if she hears it again.
So yesterday, when I dropped her off before school, I told the director of what happened over the weekend and she just said, "Well, (girl) will only be here for the rest of this week. I'm sorry that happened." I also told her that we don't use language like that as my brother is homosexual. We don't really talk about that, either yet (I think 7 is a little young to try to go there at this point).
My questions are:
1. Should I explain to DD what a fa**ot is? And if so, what do I say?
2. SHould I insist on speaking to the parents of (girl)?
So, I asked where in the world she heard that word from.
She responded that a little girl (age 10) called her that on t he playground.
I asked her to tell me EXACTLY what was said.
She said that (girl) said, "Get away, Fa**ot!"
I just told her it was an ugly word that ladies don't say and that she needs to tell someone if she hears it again.
So yesterday, when I dropped her off before school, I told the director of what happened over the weekend and she just said, "Well, (girl) will only be here for the rest of this week. I'm sorry that happened." I also told her that we don't use language like that as my brother is homosexual. We don't really talk about that, either yet (I think 7 is a little young to try to go there at this point).
My questions are:
1. Should I explain to DD what a fa**ot is? And if so, what do I say?
2. SHould I insist on speaking to the parents of (girl)?