I had my babies in the late '80s and helped with my step daughter with her five other the past 18 years. I'm wondering what is new with babies...trends? New medical advice? Safety?
What do new grandmoms need to know?
I just wanted to say how nice it is that you’re asking. So many grandmothers (including my mil) want to challenge the new trends, safety & medical recs etc instead of trying to learn what is new best practice.
The cloth diapers are back in. It's come full circle.We wore cloth diapers with big sharp pins and had crib bumpers, blankets and pillows. So much has changed!
LOL. Yes and no. I wore nothing but cloth diapers 65 years ago. No disposable diapers yet. My mom kept the old diapers and insisted on using them on my kids......briefly.......and became a believer in disposable diapers. My DIL was all for cloth diapers when her first child was born......briefly.....and became a believer in disposable diapers.The cloth diapers are back in. It's come full circle.
Congratulations @Hisgirl, and to all other new grand parents here. It's a nice trip.What do new grandmoms need to know?
I had my babies in the late '80s and helped with my step daughter with her five other the past 18 years. I'm wondering what is new with babies...trends? New medical advice? Safety?
What do new grandmoms need to know?
DS never liked to be swaddled. Even the nicu nurses couldn’t make a swaddle tight enough that he couldn’t get out of! He could get his hands out of the sleep sack swaddles too so we gave up lol. Whatever you want, kid!Our grandson is just turning 21 months and there was a lot to learn. I truly relied on my daughter and son-in-law and the reading and research they had done and followed their lead. As first time parents they may want to follow everything to the letter, and as they learn their new little one they will make adjustments. And for me, I would just ask to make sure I was doing hints they way they wanted them done. At the very beginning, everything was by the book/blog/expert website. We did laugh about things along the way. For example, every ultrasound our daughter had, our grandson had his hands up over his head, like he was calling a touchdown lol. The guidelines are to swaddle them til four months. Within the first week or two he was fighting one of the swaddles she had bought and when I mentioned his ultrasounds she popped his arms out of the swaddle and up they went over his head and he was sound asleep. They learn like we did and I just follow their cues. I am blessed to be able to spend time with him as they live 5 minutes from us.
Yes, this! My mom still comments on how tight the straps are for my son (he's 3 now). I'm like, yes, that's the POINT.Okay, for practical things -- one thing that has surprised grandparents is car seat rules. We rearfaced a bit past age 3 and they were surprised. We're also very careful with things like puffy coats in the carseat. I (subtly) tightened the straps when my wonderful MIL buckled my daughter in for probably the first 10 times, until she caught me and I told her the best practices of how tight the straps should be and where they should be located.