I had a realization about the difference between the people that still find the Magic just going to Disney and those that want more guest experiences.
Those that feel the magic just by being there are like someone in love. They can be happy just being together. So, just going to Disney, looking at the castle, etc. makes these people happy. It is like a happy memory I have with my husband. We went to a friend's house and the friend was confused about the time so we waited in his driveway for about a hour and a half talking. Truly happy memory.
Those that are grumpy about the missing experiences are like a girl that bought a dress and had her hair done for a first or second date that was supposed to be fancy. If the date ends up being to sit in a car and talk that is OK if some emergency happened, like the people that went to Disney this summer. But if the plan all along was to sit in the car, she would be understandably upset.
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I have a friend who will never go to Disney again. Her parents took the family when she was too small to ride the 'thrill' rides. Her memory is of waiting in lines that she wasn't big enough to ride but that her older siblings were, and being chastised for being grumpy because kids are supposed to be happy at Disney. Of course that is on the idiot parents.