Now I think popular girl cheerleader types are EXACTLY the type of girls who bully.
My daughters start middle school in a matter of weeks. I cannot put into words how much I am dreading everything about it.
Those are exactly who are the bullys- they were when I went to school in the dark ages and they still are. No way was I letting my daughter be one of "those" girls!
I am going to have to stand up for cheerleaders here.
I have a 23 year old daughter with Down syndrome. So, we have done the whole school thing.
She also cheers on a competitive special needs team. We travel to competitions, our biggest one in Dallas - the so-called mecca of cheer.
First of all, cheerleading is one of the only sports period to embrace special needs teams as equal to every other team. They compete at the same competitions, etc.
Now remember, we have done the whole school thing. So, I can absolutely, assuredly say that cheerleaders are some of the most caring, giving, decent people we have ever met.
Walking down a hallway with your team of 20 special needs cheerleaders with all sorts of disabilities, both physical and intellectual, from Down syndrome to Autism, to CP, to TBI, amongst 20,000 other "typical" cheerleaders, and having team after team after team from across the country stop in their tracks and clap your team down the hallway was awe inspiring. These teens were truly accepting and really want the special needs kids to be a full part of their sport. My daughter told me "it was the first time she ever felt normal."
In our gym, you actually have to try out to be a "junior coach" on the special needs team because SO many of the cheerleaders want to help.
You all have been watching way too many "Bring It On" movies to paint an incredible group of young ladies and men as "bullies." We know about bullies, and cheerleaders we have found are about as far from the stereotype as you can get.